DISCIPLINE WITH BELTS OR TAWSES (New York City , NY)

 

Two things that the Scottish are known for is the (regrettable) deep fried boiled egg wrapped in bacon, and the Tawse.  Many Scottish schoolboys referred to the way it stung their behinds as " The Tingle O'  the Tawse".

The tawse is similar to a belt except that instead of a single piece of thick leather,  the tawse is deeply thonged  (perhaps several times) and  feels like two (or more) straps hitting your backside at once.  It hurts like a belt and stings like a lash;and the tawse and belt are often used interchangeably. 

When I conduct formal discipline I prefer the tawse .  The misbehaved boy must be bent, bare bottom,  over a chair for the tawsing to be most effective.  The tawse I own has a thick wooden handle allowing for  maximum control.  I then decide the number of blows  for each of his infractions (or the magnitude of his particular transgression). 


 For both formal and informal  discipline the belt will do nicely.  If someone is caught- red handed, I can instantly take the belt, throw him across my knee and burn his bare bottom.  No counting and  it will smart for  quite some time.

But when a certain number of severe  lashes is required,  I may use a belt in the same manner I will the tawse.   He will be bent over a chair, bottom bared to receive a number of very sharp and measured blows.

My favorite way to deliver a message may be a good, hard, over the knee, bare handed spanking but that's an intimate and, at times inappropriate method.  

On this side of the pond the belt is much more traditional but rest assured, the Scottish Tawse  is one implement your bottom will not soon forget.



Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane



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BARE BOTTOM SPANKING EASES THE GUILTY CONSCIENCE (New York City , NY)

Most of  us were born with a conscience and  as you grow up, you're taught what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior; much of which is universal.  

You were not to steal,  fib,  be mean to others,  exhibit rudeness, laziness, to be disrespectful to authority or to your elders.   

If you did any of these misdeeds, it was also universal to be taken over a mother's knee, with  pants pulled down - or dress pulled up - and receive a good, hard, bare handed, bare bottom spanking until you cried from anger at being spanked, all the way to real remorse for your actions and by the time she was done,  you'd learned never to do it again.

Due to their in - born conscience and "home training"  when a child gets away with bad behavior it troubles him. Even if he intended not to be caught, it  will secretly aggravate him. Yet he will continue until he receives the punishment he seeks to absolve his  guilt.

This is true for adults as well.  I strongly believe that, very often, some things that were effective as children are still beneficial as adults and  
Spanking Discipline is one of them.

When an adult is rude to his staff,  tells lies (even little white ones)  steals  - anything -   or procrastinates at work,  a Spanking is in order. 

When he's doing things to harm himself such as excessive gambling, overindulging in food, sex or alcohol;  serious discipline is called for.

If it were up to me, I'd take down his underpants and spank the living daylights out of him; past the point that he can tolerate and past the point of tears.  

That way he will feel truly punished for his behavior.   The tears will have washed the guilt away.  His slate is wiped clean - and it's a new day.  
What can be better than that?



Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

Boys Learn When Bottoms Burn

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GEORGIA CANE: SPANKED for SNEEKING SWEETS (New York City, NY)

 You may once have been a school boy with a tremendous sweet tooth and,  no doubt, you tried but could not resist the pyramids of  chocolate, caramel and hard candy displayed in the sweet shop on the way  to school.  Turkish Delight was the sweetest and perhaps your favorite and even though it was forbidden to bring candy to class, you purchased a bag anyway and smuggled it in.

Whenever the teacher turned her back, you'd sneak a  jelly in your mouth, and it was that much more delicious for deliberately being naughty.  Naturally, she called on you to answer a question with your mouth  full and unable speak and, of course,  you were  punished.

Not  because you had candy, but because you willfully broke the rules and enjoyed getting away with it.

Turkish Delight

After the last classmate left, the door was locked and there you were, alone with a woman strong, stern and easily twice your size.
Trousers and underpants pulled down,  you were positioned -just so- over her knee. Then her bare hand began to strike your backside soundly  - one blow landing harder than the last - while you helplessly kicked and cried. When she was done and you were free to leave, and you were lucky to find a cool stone to sit your bottom on to draw out the sting.
However, you learned that willful disobedience brings consequences.  

Now that you're grown you still indulge in things you shouldn't, although more likely Martinis than Turkish Delight, but whatever your indulgences are  (and they may be anything) you love them all the more when  you do them in secret.
Still your conscience isn't clear,  and you know it.
  You'd be well advised to relieve your burden and present yourself to a strict, disciplinarian who will spank your backside  pink to blue and receive the comeuppance you deserve.  You then will be given a clean slate  and enjoy a clear conscience even if you do sit on pillows for a few days.




Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

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GEORGIA CANE: SPANKLESS RELATIONSHIPS (New York City , NY)

Many a man has the deep desire to be taken by a female  authority;  put over her lap - and spanked - to tears.  But that's not always an easy thing to explain to a partner.  Some of these same men are in relationships with women who have "vanilla" (conventional) ideas  about what it means to be  masculine, feminine; weak and strong.  

It may be that their women don't want to 'upset the apple cart' and feel submission is not a sign of strength; when,  in truth, men who require spanking are  -almost without exception - dominant, strong and in constant control of every aspect of their lives.

Just as often, however, it's he who doesn't want the dynamic altered and may prefer to see his wife or girlfriend in a certain light. Unfortunately, that light doesn't include her spanking his bare bottom red and definitely not confession and discipline. 

Then,  there's the girlfriend who makes the half-hearted  attempt at spanking  because she's afraid of  'hurting' and can't  get past her unease. 

Now all of this is difficult if  you're the one in desperate need of a spanking. Trust is an enormous issue and deciding to be spanked by a disciplinarian is not that simple.  

First of all, you must know that the disciplinarian understands what traditional, domestic discipline is (opposed to BDSM) and fully understand that a hard, hand spanking is necessary for you to achieve total loss of control and emotional release.  In other words, you have to be held down and spanked to tears and then some. 

When you're finally made to let go, you'll feel that catharsis a good long while.

Georgia Cane


Boys Learn When Bottoms Burn 


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GEORGIA CANE: WET SPANKING (New York City , NY)

A client of mine told me once that, growing up, he had to wait until after a bath  for his spanking.
That wait could be all day, but directly after dinner, his mother sent him to his room while she ran his bathwater. He remembered how flushed he'd become when he heard the water running because he knew what came next.

When he was in the tub exactly fifteen minutes, his mother ordered him out and into her room where she sat waiting. Then without saying a word, she adjusted her skirt, positioned him over her knee, locked her leg over both of his and  delivered a hand spanking so hard his mind went blank. Between the sting of her hand  on his wet behind and the noise it made, he couldn't hear a thing she was saying. No matter. The  message was received.

For years now, I've incorporated wet spanking into my discipline sessions. I find  it intensifies the sting and without the marks or bruising. After I've spanked a naughty bottom tender with either my hand or an implement,  I apply a hot, wet cloth to it several times. This soothes the bottom and calms them down - momentarily -  then I continue to spank.

Without question, a wet bottom enhances over the knee spanking discipline  It eliminates marks and bruises but still leaves the behind  warm and sore for days.

Mother knows best.    

GEORGIA CANE: WHY ADULT SPANKING DISCIPLINE is EFFECTIVE (New York City , NY)

"In it's function, the power to punish is not essentially different 
from that of curing or educating."

-  Micheal Foucault

I believe spanking is administered to  punish, teach and instill self discipline in order to raise a well mannered, socially adjusted, successful individual. 

One of the first lessons a child learns is to obey authority, for it's own sake and without explanation. In other words, "...because I said so."  In time,  they will come to understand the reason   why playing on the train tracks, or wondering off alone is a punishable offense.  The spanking was done to keep the child safe.
  
Still a child will test authority and a mother who makes threats, too often, to spank her child, will begin to lose authority. She is (unconsciously) sending a message that she's not to be taken seriously. 

But the most absurd method of behavioral correction of all, is to  reason with a young child in the throws of a tantrum.  How many times have we seen a  child of five or six  screaming and flailing around, while the mother attempts to "reason" with him as though he were fourteen?  Of course, this accomplishes nothing more than to make the child even angrier and more aggressive; and sometimes enough to give her a kick in the leg.  Here's why. 

Children have a need to  feel safe and to know that  the woman in control of their lives is strong and able to protect them. For this reason, instinctively, they will test and  if she is easily intimidated, they feel threatened by, and vulnerable to world around them.

By the same token, if a child acts out in public and the mother pulls him off of the floor and spanks his bottom  -  then and there  -  he eventually  calms down. The reason is the same.  He knows he's in strong capable hands;  boundaries will not be crossed; and  he is safe. The same holds true for adults.   

Grownups  act out too, although (hopefully) in more subtle ways.  
They  test the boundaries, procrastinate, fib, sass, throw tirades and indulge in various other  willfully, unacceptable behaviors. 

Adults need to be reminded that there are consequences to paid when they do things that are potentially harmful.  

I am a firm believer, that a good, old fashioned  spanking  to tears and  little beyond  - is  effective discipline at 6  or 60. 

In my experience, children of any age, must realize they are to behave and know that they're in the hands of a strong and capable woman.  

The more things change, the more they remain the same. 

 Warm Bottoms, 
Georgia Cane

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