GEORGIA CANE': MY NATURAL TREATMENT FOR SEVERE OCD VS ELECTRO CONVULSIVE THERAPY.

 

I am fully aware that I am a strict, traditional, Domestic Disciplinarian and not a clinician   However, an increasing number of clients have come to me suffering from one form or another of OCD.  As a Disciplinarian, it was my obligation to apprise myself of the increasingly popular clinical methods being used in treating this condition, such as ECT (Electroconvulsive Therapy) and to compare the approach and results of ECT to the Intensive, Non-Invasive Behavioral Modification (Paddling)  I administer. 

For the purpose of this blog, I'm referring to my method as  "Non-Invasive Impact Therapy" which has been  - and is - very successful in the long term (to permanent) relief for clients who suffer the debilitation and loss of control brought about by OCD; and, if you're dealing with this enervating disorder, you're hardly alone. 

In fact, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder  (OCD) effects a great deal of people.   Approximately 1.9% to 3.3% of the population will experience OCD at some point in their lifetime. These may include rumination, intrusive and disturbing thoughts, repeatedly checking locks, stoves, irons, computers, light switches, televisions and alarms, or compulsive hand washing, showering or constant fear of making mistakes. 

To control this condition with ECT, ( a newer version of Electroshock Treatment) electrodes are placed on your temples that conduct an electric current through the brain.  The current triggers a seizure that, according to Johns Hopkins, lasts for 30 to 60 seconds. This seizure rewires the brain and is generally administered 2-3 times weekly for 6-12 sessions, and patients are under anesthesia along with muscle relaxers in order to prevent convulsions.  Nevertheless, post treatment dangers still include 29% to 55%  of patients experiencing memory loss, acute delirium and confusion, while 38%  reported persistent or permanent memory loss, including erasure of past, personal events. Even after conventional treatment, 25% to 40% of patients have persistent symptoms.   In other words, many people with OCD are still suffering from the condition despite treatment. 
All of this seems a bit dramatic for such "iffy" results.

 My method, however, works in a similar fashion but without the harmful effects.

 Instead of paddles on boths sides of your head. I smack the exposed cheeks of your bare bottom with a thick leather paddle of my own.  This shock sends an electrical current directly from your butt to your brain and forges a grove that affects behavior.  Additionally, the post-treatment effects are positive. 

That's because Spanking (or Non-Invasive Impact Therapy) activates  Adrenaline that increases blood flow to your  brain, lessens pain, and enhances cognitive function, alertness and vision.  Spanking also releases Endorphins,  the "feel-good" chemicals in the brain, that relieve pain,  reduce stress  and give a sense of well-being (even euphoria) , and last, but never least, is Dopamine, the other "feel-good" hormone,  that elevates mood, heightens focus, improves sleep and makes you take action, achieve goals, and love doing it. 

Instead of repeatedly frying the brain with electrodes, I will strategically and methodically wallop your behind until  your cheeks are crimson, tender and warm to the touch.  

And because I am a Disciplinarian and not a clinician, I have a personal interest in the learning the details of your triggers in order to thoroughly address your condition. 

The truth is, you needn't suffer any longer from severe, (or even not so severe) OCD.  The solution is here.  "Non-Invasive Impact Therapy" is the natural way to stimulate the brain  and successfully reduce OCD, and the best part is, no side effects other than improved moods,  relaxation,  clarity,  ambition,  high energy; and -of course - a nicely burning bottom. 

Warm Bottoms,

Georgia Cane

TAX SEASON DISCIPLINE: Georgia Cane Spanking Disciplinarian NYC, NY

Ah! 

Here we are again.  Tax season has come and gone and you were not prepared.   

Evidently, the thought of taxes sends you to the realms of desperation, delusion and fear. Because, instead of finding deductions, you turn yourself to jelly. However, the transmogrification is useless. Your behavior must change and the smack of my hand, and the slap of my belt on your bare bottom, will send that message from your backside to your brain.

 

For, it's better to experience the sting of my cane than the agony of the audit.

Warm Bottoms,

Georgia Cane

Boys Learn When Bottoms Burn

and Girls Are No Exception

ENDURANCE DISCIPLINE TO ACHIEVE PERFECTION GEORGIA CANE

Since you're here, I can be reasonably sure that you understand the importance of rules and boundaries. As a Disciplinarian, I believe boundaries are the limits to acceptable behavior and protect you from giving in to weakness. Rules go hand in hand with boundaries. They are the specific regulations that must be obeyed to have a predictable outcome.  There is only one reason I allow boundaries and rules to be challenged and that is to stretch the limits of your endurance in order to achieve perfection.

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And, if you now have qualms about breaching barriers, then you forgot you once did it all the time. 

When you were a child playing on the swings, you were told to be very careful, yet you always swung higher and higher until fear of falling was the thrill that propelled you.  And you're still the same. You just need a recharge.

Because I agree that 'your effort becomes your capacity' I stretch the perimeters in increments.  This means if your bare bottom is used to ten strokes of the cane, it's given twenty. Thirty lashes of a thick leather belt become forty and prepare for fifty blows of a wood paddle to your sore and crimsome behind to be sixty. In addition, rather than laying over my knee, you may be bent over a bench, told to hold your ankles in a corner, or put on all fours to receive your Spanking.

But now that you've learned to push past your limits, boundaries are a thing of the past as you confidently stride toward achieving perfection.  

Sometimes rules are made to be broken.

Warm Bottoms,

Georgia Cane

GEORGIA CANE: A SPANKING FOR INNOVATION IN TIMES OF FLUX.

Now I'm certain you've noticed that, at regular intervals, some economic change occurs that's so significant it causes you to rethink all of your strategies.  Geopolitics, government policies, politics, and the natural order of supply and demand are factors beyond your control, and with so many variables involved, nothing is foolproof.  Inevitably, change and its partner natural selection comes to determine who flourishes and who fades, and you will either prepare or be caught with your pants down. It's harder to stay on top than to get there. You must be creative and open to new concepts and with spanking discipline, you will learn to adapt.

As a Disciplinarian, I not only believe in the principles of focus, obedience, and perseverance but also in the benefit of creative intelligence, self-rediscovery, imagination, and innovation.  All of which I skillfully encourage whether they are dormant or not.  

By releasing your creativity you unleash innovation and you will not only remain relevant, but you will also flourish.  But it's not about staying relevant but being involved. 

 Wasn't it not long ago that you indulged in everything from James Brown at the Apollo to  Frank Zappa at the Palladium, from dancing at Mudd Club to eating at Blarney Stone,  or from Prince to Lou Reed. 

You preferred the art scene in the East Village better than in SOHO and liked FUN GALLERY, the basement storefront over on 11th where Basquiat and Keith Haring had their first showing.  You meshed and mingled with people different from yourself you were the better for it  

But now that you're established you've outgrown such things. 
It's only the classics for you. I will spank you for that attitude alone.  

There can be no such thing as an instant classic. There are only artistic works that have stood the test of time. Expand your mind! Remember Van Gogh was never recognized during his entire life nor was John Keats, or for that matter, Johann Sebastian Bach.  

You knew energy and variation were keys to life, and yet you've grown stale. 

Don't worry.  As a Disciplinarian, I will have you restored in short order.

To wipe away the cobwebs and free your mind, your bare bottom is fully exposed and perfectly positioned over a couch, chair, or spanking bench. You feel the burn of the leather belt evenly lash both cheeks, the sting of the rattan cane, and/or hard smack of the wooden hairbrush or leather paddle.

With each precisely aimed thwack, you are given an instruction of two or three words which I will repeat with every blow until your bottom is crimson, soar to the touch and I think you understand. 

It's all to your benefit. 

There will always be forces beyond your control. You need your edge. Spanking discipline that stimulates creativity and promotes innovation is not only practical in times of flux. It's the smartest form of artistry there is. 

Because there is nothing that a well-spanked and nicely-burning bottom can't do.

Warm Bottoms

Georgia Cane

 

DISCIPLINE IN THE TIME OF CHAOS (Georgia Cane)

  

We are in chaotic times, and as I'm sure you'll agree it's more difficult than ever,  to find a touchstone for grounding and guidance.  Things changed quickly. One morning you're moving through the familiar frequency of the crowded City and by nightfall, it's deserted. 
Soon vacant stores and shuttered bars sit cheek by jowl like remnants of another era, while the odd restaurant grasping to survive,  is a skeletal version of its former self.  Businesses blindly navigate a current of shifting rules and, prepared or not, you may be required to adjust your life at a moment's notice.  But then, life is a challenge; and not so long ago, people believed that challenges built character and that obstacles were made to conquer. This means that the ethics of discipline were once held in high regard and, in fact, science is proving that facing challenges stimulates cell growth in the brain.  However, as a Disciplinarian, it's come to my attention that certain groups no longer practice ethics or were, perhaps, never taught. That's a pity. And while I refrain from blanket statements, it's clear to me that none are in more need of guidance and Discipline than Millenials and Generation X.    

Somewhere along the line, the discipline ball was dropped and the unfortunate result cannot be denied, 

Long-term studies show that GenX (1965-1980) and Millenials (1981 - 1996) are in worse shape than previous generations at the same age.   This includes anxiety, depression, excess alcohol, and drug abuse as well as high blood pressure, cholesterol,  extra belly fat, obesity (heaven forbid), and substances in the blood that suggest chronic inflammation. All this is due to a sorry state known technically as "Physiological Dysgeneration" and, apparently, it began with the Boomer Generation (1946 - 1964) and worsened from there.  This makes sense. 

Before the advent of television, children relied on their imagination and creativity.  They read books that opened a world of improbable heroes and faraway places while toy soldiers and baby dolls came to life through sheer force of will.   

Parents instilled Discipline in their children to prepare for the unseen times ahead. Determination, self-reliance, focus, and grit were taught as basic tools of survival and a spanking  - when needed - was par for the course. When asked if he ever hit his own children, Dr. Benjamin Spock, the famously misunderstood "Pied Piper of Pemissivism" answered. "Sure" but only on occasion. He went on to explain he didn't think corporal punishment was mandatory, but 'parents to whom it seemed natural need not be ashamed of themselves

But unlike Spock, who never called himself a Disciplinarian,  I do; and that said, I firmly believe in the transformative powers of verbal correction and spanking discipline.  

The sting of a belt on an upturned bare bottom,  the burn of a wooden hairbrush, the bare-handed smacks on a sore and red behind, or even the sharp lash of the rattan cane, delivers a charge that will clear the cobwebs, and strengthen the core of any healthy adult male or female.  Confidence returns and the outlook brightens as you come to understand the Stoic principles of fortitude, resilience, and self-restraint.

For all generations, discipline is the protective shield and the weapon of choice in a time of chaos - and with a nicely burning bottom to boot. 

Warm Bottoms,

Georgia Cane

 

DO YOU NEED A REASON TO CRY? : GEORGIA CANE DISCIPLINARIAN

As a Disciplinarian, it's not uncommon for me to answer questions about spanking procedures or various techniques, but recently, 
ALL THINGS SPANKING asked a slightly different question and now I'm sharing my answer here with you. 

Question:

Many people fantasize about being spanked to tears, yet that is often difficult to achieve.  You have confessed some success in causing tears. Do you just spank hard until it happens?  Is there a secret? 

Answer:

I've found that tears result from the connection you make to the person receiving discipline and more of an energy exchange than a power or role reversal. 

It's a keyed-in  - detached - intuitive "read"  which reaches the spot that makes you cry.  It could be only a word or they may not be aware of just why they're in tears. We're in the subconscious and some almost left forgetting their shoes. 

Spanking discipline is one thing, but you can be disciplined without being spanked.

I seriously doubt most grown men can be spanked to tears. They're taught early-on that "boys don't cry.  No matter  how much they crave catharsis,  the harder you spank them, the tougher they get ; and a tear or two shed from pain is not sufficient.  

It's not brutality.  It's instinct   

Take, for example, the mother who can look at her child, tell he has misbehaved and scold him to tears without a spanking. 

Her intensity and intuition are enough to make him cry.  The spanking comes next.  

So connection and intuition trigger tears and spanking adds to that.  

And the same is true for punishment spanking which is punitive and executed in silence.         

Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

www.georgiacane.com

MISS CANE EXPLAINS

As a Disciplinarian, I've answered nearly every conceivable question concerning adult spanking discipline.  But "ALL THINGS SPANKING" has a question of its own.


The Interview:


Georgia Cane is New York City Disciplinarian who has a strong appearance and equally powerful demeanor. She's been a friend of "All Things Spanking" for quite some time, and we occasionally draw upon her advice.  Recently she answered a question we posed and I thought it would be good to share here.

ATS: You recently appeared in a BuzzFeed video related to the use of consensual, adult spanking and how its practice has grown.  In the video, you look like the quintessential 1950's  Mom ready to "counsel" her family.  The individuals spanked remained clothed - leggings or jeans as I recall - and that is how you dealt with them.  Is that how you normally practice in this thing we do?

Georgia Cane: That was all Buzzfeed's idea; sort of the Disney version spanking discipline.
I'm not that vanilla and, to be honest, I was surprised they contacted me.

I think we all know that adult discipline is kink, but their focus was on how spanking changes behavior and, since my sites address this, they asked for an interview.
Then the day before we were scheduled to meet, they informed me that two female producers requested a spanking - on video.

I had concerns.

Now, because it's Buzzfeed, I'm wearing the most vanilla thing I own to spank two arrogant women in bicycle shorts. But discipline is discipline; so I made them fear me a little, gave them orders then smacked their bottoms, repeatedly, for emphasis. Apparently, it worked.
However, real sessions look nothing like that.

I'm tall (5'11"), a size 4-6 and I prefer black form-fitting dresses, stockings, and heels.  My clients might be spanked locked over my knee with only their bare bottoms exposed or bent, fully naked on a kneeling bench and whipped with a leather belt, tawse, cane or perhaps all three.  Sometimes, I don't use words except to give orders and count the number of lashes to the bare bottom.  Other times, my words alone make them cry.

The goal is to reach your catharsis by whatever works best.

And by the way: I've never called it 'therapy'.


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

Georgia Cane Spanking Disciplinarian


*ALL THINGS SPANKING
*Mitch Philbin
*February 16, 2019

GEORGIA CANE DISCIPLINARIAN (NYC): SPANKING COUNSELING FOR THE BOTH OF YOU BECAUSE NEITHER ONE BEHAVES

                                                                       

 So here it is.

She thinks that you're a shameless flirt and he feels you're insecure.  She believes that you're ignoring her and he sees you as a diva.  He's weary of your constant nit-picking and her of wet towels on the bathroom floor.  She'd like you home for dinner more but you're always working late. And now he's at the computer until very late at night while you're in bed texting a Facebook friend you used to date in high school.  There is trouble brewing and action required.  Couple's counselors make you ask your partner how it makes them feel when you do this or that.  But the truth is, you already know how it makes them feel, which is the reason you do it, to begin with.  I suggest then instead of this pretense, that you air your grievances to a mature, impartial female authority; one who will listen carefully, judge fairly and then deliver a strict, no-nonsense, bare bottom spanking equally to you both.

Because neither party is blameless. The two of you are bored, willful, selfish, stubborn and I believe that you should receive your punishment side by side with one witnessing the other.

For his wandering eye,  you enjoy watching him wince as she grips a heavy tawse and counts the forty blows that are welting his exposed bare bottom.  And, for your incessant nagging and massive insecurity, he's pleased with the spectacle of your upturned bare bottom as it's striped by a slender rattan cane.

Then kneeling on all fours, face to face, you receive twenty blows of a thick leather paddle, alternating between first her bruised cheeks and then your own.

The air is cleared, the tears are shed and two bottoms are smartly smacked.  Now you can view one another with appreciative eyes and promise to be nice.  But don't forget.  If this conduct begins again, a pair of bare bottoms, well spanked, await you in the very near future.  Then again, what could be warmer than that?



Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

www.georgiacane.com

NYC Spanking Disciplinarian

GEORGIA CANE: SPANKED INTO EXCELLENCE: (YOU ARE BETTER THAN THE BEST) (NYC)

"Shooting Stars Never Stop; Even When They Reach The Top"
-Frankie Goes to Hollywood-

 Since you are considered to be a star, by now you have guessed that there is no such thing as reaching the top. The top does not exist.  No matter how high you rise,  there is higher to go. You understand life is motion and goals are either closer or farther from reach than on the day before. Yet I believe that even stars must be galvanized at times, and a strict, no-nonsense authority will see to it you maintain focus, push past limits and exceed all expectations.

Remember. Pride in achievement is one thing, but complacency will have you fade. Then you'll be merely an imprint of the person you once were.

To ensure this never happens, I suggest that a mature Disciplinarian take a wooden hairbrush to your bare bottom, and smack it repeatedly while you struggle on her lap pleading through tears for mercy; then direct your raw, welted cheeks to sit squarely on a wicker chair and recite; "I will not rest upon my laurels" as the bamboo burns this deep into your brain.

Finally,  spurring you to excellence, you're bent over said chair for thirty of the best of her heavy leather belt on your flamed and smarting behind.

For the next three days, your behind is tender to the touch and warm.  You have been cleansed,  energized, and focused. You shine and for you, there are no limitations, only new horizons to explore.   And if ever you should hear the words  "Shooting stars never stop, even when they reach the top" you will know for certain that's you.


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

Georgia Cane Spanking Disciplinarian

Georgia Cane

NYC Spanking Disciplinarian

YOUR JOB IS TO SPANK YOUR HUSBAND: Georgia Cane (NYC)

If any Ladies still believe that spanking your husbands is untoward, peculiar or new, let me correct that misconception.  Wives have been spanking their husbands for more than six hundred years and likely from the time of Lilith; so if they find anything new under the sun, this will not be it.  Men, like boys, are willful.  They will always require a strict and strong woman who'll keep them in line and even, if necessary,  smack their bottoms black and blue.  Such is the case since time began.  

As a Disciplinarian, I believe it's important to know how and when to pull in his reigns or else catastrophe is close behind.  I suggest that when your husband is too big for his britches, take them down and burn his bare backside well.  Remind him that, where ever he goes, his actions have consequences and that home is no exception.  

Make sure to position him over your knee, and to find the plumpest spot on his upturned behind. Then take your favorite wood hairbrush, and crack his cheeks repeatedly until tears streak his face and he understands that you mean business.  And since skin to skin sends the message best,  deliver another twenty barehanded blows to his throbbing backside for good measure. Let him struggle, plead and beg your forgiveness.  It's to no avail.  The only sound you hear is the smack of your hand on his sore, bare bottom echoing throughout the room.  


 All through history, men have relied on a strong, no-nonsense woman to spank him hard and keep him in line.  She knows his tears are the catharsis that relieves his guilt, renews his spirit and wipes his conscience clean.  And she makes sure his cheeks are on fire for days afterward. 
Because, after all, he enjoys a warm and tingling bottom too. 

     
                               



Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

www.georgiacane.com


     

NYC Spanking Disciplarian

EXTREME DISCIPLINE FOR THE FEW WHO NEED IT: GEORGIA CANE (NYC)

 I believe, as a Disciplinarian, there are four purposes to spanking correction: Chastisement,   Discipline, Punishment, and Catharsis.

Chastisement sees that you realize the nature of your behavior, and that you understand life's penalties often are more draconian than a Disciplinarian may impose. Every lash of the strap she wields on your bare bottom is serving as a painful reminder to you that better is always expected.

Discipline is to break you of bad habits and train you in good ones. Do exactly as she instructs.   Her standards are high.  A good Disciplinarian accepts no less than excellence. You will strive in all things for maximum performance, in part because you're now aware of consequences.

 Punishment, there are few words. "You know why we're here". "Bend!" "Kneel"!  "Grab your ankles and spread your legs" will generally suffice.  Position yourself on the kneeling bench. Receive the counted, measured blows on your bare and tender bottom,  immediately followed with, perhaps,  a spray of rubbing alcohol directly on the welts, and the burning wet spanking resumes. Or lying prone on a couch, bare bottom faced meeting the repeated smacks of a thick rawhide, leather tawse until she feels the price is paid.

But all roads lead to catharsis.  Tears clean you inside, guilt melts away and your spirit renewed. You're now calm, reinvigorated and at peace.  What you've experienced is for your own good.  Each word is carefully selected and every stroke purposefully applied.

A spanking is, after all, not only to hold you in good stead but to enjoy your very nicely burning bottom as well.


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

 www.georgiacane.com


NYC Spanking Disciplinarian

PAROCHIAL PUNISHMENT

 I believe that, by most people, you're considered to be successful.  You're often described as principled, thoughtful and fair, and a decisive yet diplomatic leader.   Yet, as I'm sure you'll remember, this was not always the case; in fact, quite the opposite.  As an eleven-year-old boy in Catholic School, you were a rascally mischief-maker, a big personality with crafty little ways and an angelic, baby face.  But of course, looks are deceiving. You were a wisenheimer talking out of turn; coming late to class, rolling your eyes at the lay teachers, and making snide remarks.  You used profanity in the hallways and turned in your homework late (those times you turned it in at all). If not for the concern of a very strict nun with a paddle that spanked your behind; your reputation would be different from the one you enjoy today.

As it happened,  you were invited for an afternoon of detention with Mother Superior; towering, no-nonsense School Principle, and strict, big-handed Disciplinarian.  She had observed your wisenheimer antics for some time decided to intervene.

Upon entering her office, without greeting or fanfare, your pants come down and underwear off.  Then over her desk you're thrown -  positioned just so -  as a brass ruler smacks your skin, blistering your bottom while rivulets of tears stain your cheeks.  You're then pulled up by the ear, turned to the blackboard and ordered to read the School Rules aloud.  Each rule is followed by a sound of her enormous bare hand slapping a small bare bottom.

I will be polite at all times or I will be spanked.
I will do homework on time or I will be spanked.
I will pay attention in class or I will be spanked.
I will not roll my eyes or I will be spanked.
I will not use profanity or I will be spanked.
I will never be late or be spanked...

Now hold your ankles and be roundly lashed with a long leather strap;  five times for each infraction.
And still, in your shirt, jacket, tie, and vest, you're once more marched bottomless by the ear, into the corner.  She places a Dunce Cap on your head and you are to stand motionless. She pays no mind that you're flushed with shame.  Instead, she sits at her desk, does paperwork and takes calls. But whenever you move an inch, she slams you again, this time with her leather paddle and blocking your bottom earns five more withering blows

After an hour or so of corner time and occasional paddling, you are permitted to dress.
You're subdued and humbled; not quite the smart aleck of three hours ago; and although your bottom is raw and stings at the touch, the lessons you have learned about manners, responsibility,  and self-control serve you well in life.

So keep a good thought for Mother Superior, the Disciplinarian behind things you enjoy today; your success, your stature, and fondness for a nicely burning bottom.


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

www.georgiacane.com


NYC Spanking Disciplinarian

BOSSES - LABOR DAY - AND SPANKING DISCIPLINE: GEORGIA CANE (NYC, NY)

 Labor Day is here to signal the end of summer.  It's the last day for primary colors, anything white, straw hats, seer sucker suits and for packing the gauzy skirts and halter tops away. But by no means was Labor Day created to mark the change of season.  It is to commemorate American workers who help make our business and country thrive and a reminder to treat them with respect. Where would you be without a personal assistant to anticipate your needs; or a Word Processor following faithfully your illegible scrawl or your driver waiting patiently to bring you to and from the office? But too often, you take their services for granted.  That's when a bottom - blistering spanking from a strong Disciplinarian is needed to remind you of proper protocol.


For your own good, you are put in the subordinate position; this means in your office and fully bare. Then you're lead by the ear to the corner with your nose touching the wall and hands behind your back. There you will stand, flush with fear and anticipation as she recites the litany of reasons it is wise to respect your staff; and that your zingers and tirade inhibit creativity costing the company potential earnings.  For that alone, I feel you should be publicly thrashed.


From the desk, you're bent over a chair and positioned just so.  Then, on behalf of all terrified personnel, your bottom is generously sprayed with water and a flat leather strap roundly slaps your bare behind. And since a sound spanking should be -  full of sound -  the snap of leather on your wet skin will ring in your ears.

Then after sixty or so lashes of the strap (or before her arm gets tired) sterner measures will take place and you feel for the crack of the hairbrush on your bruised and sore behind.  Scream 'til your face is blue.  She's heard it all before. And please, spare her the Three P's: Protests, Pleading, and Promises. By now they are music to her ears (and that water bottle can be replaced with rubbing alcohol; so quit while you're ahead).

And then she's done.  Congratulations! This valuable reminder will hold you in good stead the coming fiscal year.  You won't soon forget a happy worker is a productive one and the key to success is an appreciative boss with a nicely burning bottom.

And that is the purpose of  Labor Day.



Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane


www.georgiacane.com


 NYC Spanking Disciplinarian

                                                               

STARS and STRIPES and SPANKING MANTAINENCE: GEORGIA CANE (NYC)

  

Ladies:


This is a reminder from Miss Cane.

Your Alpha male is driven by generous servings of energy, confidence,  curiosity and drive;
and at least,  once upon a time  you found these traits attractive.
They can be again.

The problem is drive turns into overdrive making him nervous, barking and controlling. You may be climbing the walls but he's careening out of control,  praying for someone to hit the brakes and shut off the engine.  That someone is you.  So Ladies as a Disciplinarian,  I strongly suggest for the benefit of his equilibrium - and your own - that you enforce authority.

For example; when least expected, you may order your partner to strip bare and to don an apron. Leather strap in hand, march him to the kitchen and tell him to do some task of your choosing.
Then warn him of the  consequences should he fail to properly complete that task; which, of course,  he won't.

Now you may express your displeasure by bending him over the block; lashing his exposed, bare bottom with a hard, thin belt until pain and tears line his face and raised welts mark his bruised and tender skin.
And always remember Ladies,  it's enough only when you say it is; and not a second before.

But when the spanking ends and you soothe his burn and wipe his tears away,  he's rebalanced relieved and grateful.  That means you've established your authority and that all your headaches are at an end  (until thedoit-orelse.blogspot.com next time anyway).

                                    HAPPY INDEPENDENCE LADIES
                                                 





Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

www.georgiacane.com

 NYC Spanking Disciplinarian

GEORGIA CANE : A BARE BOTTOM SPANKING SOLVES PROBLEMS (NYC)

As a Disciplinarian, I believe the reasons you indulge in bad behavior are of less importance than making them stop; and that seeking root causes for bad habits do very little to change them.

Now some of you like processes more than solutions and prefer to ponder, ruminate, agonize, validate, co-sign, riff  - and repeat.  But after much Sturm und Drang,  here you are again, terrorizing business partners, letting loose at home, paying yet another speeding ticket, and sneaking back from places where you can't be seen and have no business going.  But for those of you who crave results, the solution is simple:  An Over-the-knee, no-nonsense, domestic spanking discipline  - with strong verbal correction - curbs bad behavior, adjusts attitude and sets your conduct straight.

Regardless of your age, your sex, your status or gender; this method is time-honored, tried and true. Nothing stops you dead in your tracks faster than a strict disciplinarian bending your bare behind over her knee, and burning your bottom 'til it's red, stinging and sore to the touch. And like a good mother,  she won't stop because tears are streaming your face while you kick and thrash in misery. She stops when she feels you've learned your lesson -  and not a minute before.

But between the blistering bottom and verbal re-enforcement, the message is received. In short order, your taste for dangerous mischief is done.

And now that this is settled  - with all the rules in place -  you'll be alive and healthy to examine the past with a clearer head, renewed energy, a clean conscious and a well spanked and nicely burning bottom.


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

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GEORGIA CANE : SPANK or BE SPANKED (NYC)

Ladies, mother taught you of life and men so that you'd be in charge of them both.  

That is why when you were a teen, she gave you curfew.  If you stayed past it, there were consequences and the penalty was severe.  Even at sixteen, you were not too grown to go over her knee with skirt up and undies down while she repeatedly applied her hairbrush, bare hand and belt to your bare bottom until it was red, sore and burning hot.  And on a date, the threat of that spanking  took on a life of its own; like some invisible chaperon watching every move that was made.  There was no use sneaking because she was always up waiting.  But boys will be boys and Mother knew  best. 

Spanking was her way of teaching you a valuable lesson:  Life isn't fair; and in it, you will either be in charge of it or pay the price.  To put another way; either you spank life; or life spanks you. 
What better place to start with than boys?

Because men are like children.  They love a challenge and it's for this reason alone, they'll use charm and their powers to persuade to test your resolve.   But you knew the consequences and why be spanked for something you didn't want to do.  Besides, once you give in, you lose.  

Now that you're an adult with a mind of your own and you've taken Mother's teachings one step further.  Men are like children.  They may cause you trouble if they're not controlled and need the strict discipline you know just how to deliver. 

When he becomes unruly, over your knee he goes, pants down as you repeatedly smack his bare bottom with your hairbrush,  belt and bare hand 'til his behind is red, stinging and burning hot. You control your men as you do your life and the only one spanking is you.    

Thanks, Mom.  
  

Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

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ROLE PLAY MAY BE FUN BUT IT'S REALLY NOT PRETEND: (Georgia Cane NYC, NY)

I believe there's really nothing frivolous about  role play. Under the guidance of a strict and intuitive Disciplinarian, imaginative role play takes you back to the uncluttered mind of a curious naughty child or a  challenging boy or girl on the verge of young adulthood.  Those were times when  important lessons were learned; lessons that helped you through your entire life and are experiences that should be relived periodically to maintain.

In role play no matter how grown you believed you were, consequences for bad behavior were taught on your bare bottom, often with the palm of an opened hand or hairbrush smacking your cheeks repeatedly -  on one spot -  until it is  red, tender and sore. 
And just as you  remember,  spanking is  done to reinforce a stern scolding.  You don't hit girls.  You don't talk back to the teacher. Peeking in girls locker rooms  gets you pulled by the ear and marched to the principal's office, where she promptly exposes your bottom and bends you over the desk to apply the cane.

For some of you, certain infractions  called for certain punishments. You sassed back now go and get the switch from the bush outside so she can burn your behind up.   Your report card is not up to par so assume the position  over the chair and prepare for the lash of the belt. You took the car without permission.  Get ready to go over her knee to get the spanking of your life. No one cares how grown you think you are.

Now what are the lessons?  Men who deserve respect, do not hit women.   Respect authority and mind your tongue.  It's better to be prudent than unemployed.  Spying on people is invasive and deviant behavior which is actionable by law.  Once the punishment was delivered and the tears subsided, you were made to understand the reasons were for your own good.  It was done to see to it that you became a successful, integrated member of society and was actually no less than a pragmatic form of love.

As a Disciplinarian I believe, from time to time, through role play, we can revisit these important experiences; and there is nothing pretend about that.


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

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SPANKING DISCIPLINE IS TAKING CHARGE: GEORGIA CANE (NYC)

For a while,  I felt strongly I'd said all about spanking I needed to say.  I was wrong.
Whether it is role play, age regression or addressing issues which are disrupting or hindering your life,  seeking Spanking Discipline is about one thing and one thing only; taking charge.  By that I mean YOU are taking charge of your life.

Just as doctors don't heal themselves, we can't be objective enough to see ourselves clearly; and when it comes to corporal punishment or strict behavioral correction, trust me that, no matter how determined you may be, you will not go much beyond the comfort zone.  Even in role play of any kind, you must be seen through the eyes of an authority who appreciates and fully participates in the experience.  A disciplinarian must key into both what's said and, more importantly, what's unsaid.

Focus and respect are key to ending self-destructive patterns of behavior  - from procrastination to abuse -  or for some, to clearly revisit the crux of a profound, life-directing event either left unaddressed or which held you in good stead.

In essence,  spanking discipline is self-discipline. One must cede control to a mature and savvy authority but one who will not suffer foolishness nor excuse wrong behavior but instead holds you accountable and makes you feel the consequences of wrongdoing.  That way the penalty is paid, your conscience is clear. You're left with a renewed energy, a clearer head,  clean slate,  a nicely burning bottom. And that's what it means to take charge.

Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

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New Year Resolution and Result Review

Happy New Year,  naughty boys, fresh girls, Dominant wives, misbehaving husbands, sly incorrigibles, would-be miscreants and spankophiles in general. The festivities are behind you and you've made your resolutions but,  as you know,  action initiates change. 

A  resolution is not a result, nor is worry - regardless of how obsessive  - a solution.  Never forget that nothing stays the same.   You are either going forward or backward at all times.  

Therefore you will review old patterns of behavior and, should you find them lacking,  adapt new ones that yield positive effects and more tangible results. 

I wish all of you a very healthy, sane, happy, and prosperous year.   

And remember.
Boys Learn When Bottoms Burn (and naughty girls do too).


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

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SPANKING AND COGNITIVE BEHAVIOR: DISCIPLINE FROM BACKSIDE TO BRAIN

We may think we understand our actions and the reasons why we do the things we do; but not always.  You may even believe that, by now, your personalities are set in stone as you seem to become more rigid with every passing year. And you may even tell yourselves that you're just "set in your way" but this too is not necessarily the case.  As a Disciplinarian, I know this: habits can be broken and Discipline changes behavior.  Think of your brain as a kind of computer. Now imagine your bottom the hard drive.  Not unlike clearing and resetting your computer from a virus;  a spanking reconfigures your brain, and age does not matter.   Even the most deeply entrenched habits of mature men and women are changed and not for a week,  month or for a year. They are changed for a LIFETIME.

Your brain has been programmed (like a computer) for quite a while.  Make no mistake.  It takes no shortage of expertise to access and replace the negative input with the positive.  Experience has proven that sound verbal correction along with regular application of the Belt, Paddle, Tawse or Cane on the bare bottom, is the best method; which is why clients tell me that I've done more for them in a single spanking than they've received from years of talk therapy.

The difference being:  I don't care WHY you're destructive.  I see to it that it,  that you STOP!

 Cognitively, your brain doesn't realize what it's doing.  You're engaging in patterns which keep repeating, even though you're well aware that they're ruining your life  ("Westworld").  Strict Spanking Discipline breaks you of those patterns by reprogramming you to disengage.

 Your brain is the frog that sits in the pan of slowly heating water. Habit is familiar and familiar is comfortable until, of course,  it isn't. Habits come in two ways:  Compulsive behavior; like throwing temper tantrums, eating when you aren't hungry, overspending or excessive time on the internet; and addictions such as cigarette smoking, drugs, and alcohol.
In the same way, the spankings your mother gave you as a child ( or a  least should have) set the boundaries you dared not cross; as an adult, a good sound, no-nonsense bare bottom spanking can now break you of those habits to keep you on course.  Spanking is not, I repeat not abuse. It should be delivered only on the bare bottom and never to the point of obviously sadistic physical injury.

That being said,  behavioral spanking is not playful and although every threshold is different,  a spanking hurts; which is unconsciously the precise reason why you behave long after your sore bottom is a vague memory.  You will, however, remember the consequences you paid when you stepped out of line.

In some cases, a single lesson works; for others, weekly, monthly or bi-yearly are in order. In any event, after the initial goal has been accomplished a degree of maintenance will be required.
Nevertheless, your burden is lifted,  your mind is at rest, you're free from compulsion and most importantly, your brain is reset.

Smooth sailing from then on.



Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

Website: 
www.georgiacane.com  


NYC Spanking Disciplinarian