EXTREME DISCIPLINE FOR THE FEW WHO NEED IT: GEORGIA CANE (NYC)

 I believe, as a Disciplinarian, there are four purposes to spanking correction: Chastisement,   Discipline, Punishment, and Catharsis.

Chastisement sees that you realize the nature of your behavior, and that you understand life's penalties often are more draconian than a Disciplinarian may impose. Every lash of the strap she wields on your bare bottom is serving as a painful reminder to you that better is always expected.

Discipline is to break you of bad habits and train you in good ones. Do exactly as she instructs.   Her standards are high.  A good Disciplinarian accepts no less than excellence. You will strive in all things for maximum performance, in part because you're now aware of consequences.

 Punishment, there are few words. "You know why we're here". "Bend!" "Kneel"!  "Grab your ankles and spread your legs" will generally suffice.  Position yourself on the kneeling bench. Receive the counted, measured blows on your bare and tender bottom,  immediately followed with, perhaps,  a spray of rubbing alcohol directly on the welts, and the burning wet spanking resumes. Or lying prone on a couch, bare bottom faced meeting the repeated smacks of a thick rawhide, leather tawse until she feels the price is paid.

But all roads lead to catharsis.  Tears clean you inside, guilt melts away and your spirit renewed. You're now calm, reinvigorated and at peace.  What you've experienced is for your own good.  Each word is carefully selected and every stroke purposefully applied.

A spanking is, after all, not only to hold you in good stead but to enjoy your very nicely burning bottom as well.


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

 www.georgiacane.com


NYC Spanking Disciplinarian

STARS and STRIPES and SPANKING MANTAINENCE: GEORGIA CANE (NYC)

  

Ladies:


This is a reminder from Miss Cane.

Your Alpha male is driven by generous servings of energy, confidence,  curiosity and drive;
and at least,  once upon a time  you found these traits attractive.
They can be again.

The problem is drive turns into overdrive making him nervous, barking and controlling. You may be climbing the walls but he's careening out of control,  praying for someone to hit the brakes and shut off the engine.  That someone is you.  So Ladies as a Disciplinarian,  I strongly suggest for the benefit of his equilibrium - and your own - that you enforce authority.

For example; when least expected, you may order your partner to strip bare and to don an apron. Leather strap in hand, march him to the kitchen and tell him to do some task of your choosing.
Then warn him of the  consequences should he fail to properly complete that task; which, of course,  he won't.

Now you may express your displeasure by bending him over the block; lashing his exposed, bare bottom with a hard, thin belt until pain and tears line his face and raised welts mark his bruised and tender skin.
And always remember Ladies,  it's enough only when you say it is; and not a second before.

But when the spanking ends and you soothe his burn and wipe his tears away,  he's rebalanced relieved and grateful.  That means you've established your authority and that all your headaches are at an end  (until thedoit-orelse.blogspot.com next time anyway).

                                    HAPPY INDEPENDENCE LADIES
                                                 





Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

www.georgiacane.com

 NYC Spanking Disciplinarian

ROLE PLAY MAY BE FUN BUT IT'S REALLY NOT PRETEND: (Georgia Cane NYC, NY)

I believe there's really nothing frivolous about  role play. Under the guidance of a strict and intuitive Disciplinarian, imaginative role play takes you back to the uncluttered mind of a curious naughty child or a  challenging boy or girl on the verge of young adulthood.  Those were times when  important lessons were learned; lessons that helped you through your entire life and are experiences that should be relived periodically to maintain.

In role play no matter how grown you believed you were, consequences for bad behavior were taught on your bare bottom, often with the palm of an opened hand or hairbrush smacking your cheeks repeatedly -  on one spot -  until it is  red, tender and sore. 
And just as you  remember,  spanking is  done to reinforce a stern scolding.  You don't hit girls.  You don't talk back to the teacher. Peeking in girls locker rooms  gets you pulled by the ear and marched to the principal's office, where she promptly exposes your bottom and bends you over the desk to apply the cane.

For some of you, certain infractions  called for certain punishments. You sassed back now go and get the switch from the bush outside so she can burn your behind up.   Your report card is not up to par so assume the position  over the chair and prepare for the lash of the belt. You took the car without permission.  Get ready to go over her knee to get the spanking of your life. No one cares how grown you think you are.

Now what are the lessons?  Men who deserve respect, do not hit women.   Respect authority and mind your tongue.  It's better to be prudent than unemployed.  Spying on people is invasive and deviant behavior which is actionable by law.  Once the punishment was delivered and the tears subsided, you were made to understand the reasons were for your own good.  It was done to see to it that you became a successful, integrated member of society and was actually no less than a pragmatic form of love.

As a Disciplinarian I believe, from time to time, through role play, we can revisit these important experiences; and there is nothing pretend about that.


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

Website:
 wwww.georgiacane.com


NYC Spanking Disciplinarian

New Year Resolution and Result Review

Happy New Year,  naughty boys, fresh girls, Dominant wives, misbehaving husbands, sly incorrigibles, would-be miscreants and spankophiles in general. The festivities are behind you and you've made your resolutions but,  as you know,  action initiates change. 

A  resolution is not a result, nor is worry - regardless of how obsessive  - a solution.  Never forget that nothing stays the same.   You are either going forward or backward at all times.  

Therefore you will review old patterns of behavior and, should you find them lacking,  adapt new ones that yield positive effects and more tangible results. 

I wish all of you a very healthy, sane, happy, and prosperous year.   

And remember.
Boys Learn When Bottoms Burn (and naughty girls do too).


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

Website: 
Georgia Cane Spanking Disciplinarian

NYC Spanking Disiplinarian

SPANKING AND COGNITIVE BEHAVIOR: DISCIPLINE FROM BACKSIDE TO BRAIN

We may think we understand our actions and the reasons why we do the things we do; but not always.  You may even believe that, by now, your personalities are set in stone as you seem to become more rigid with every passing year. And you may even tell yourselves that you're just "set in your way" but this too is not necessarily the case.  As a Disciplinarian, I know this: habits can be broken and Discipline changes behavior.  Think of your brain as a kind of computer. Now imagine your bottom the hard drive.  Not unlike clearing and resetting your computer from a virus;  a spanking reconfigures your brain, and age does not matter.   Even the most deeply entrenched habits of mature men and women are changed and not for a week,  month or for a year. They are changed for a LIFETIME.

Your brain has been programmed (like a computer) for quite a while.  Make no mistake.  It takes no shortage of expertise to access and replace the negative input with the positive.  Experience has proven that sound verbal correction along with regular application of the Belt, Paddle, Tawse or Cane on the bare bottom, is the best method; which is why clients tell me that I've done more for them in a single spanking than they've received from years of talk therapy.

The difference being:  I don't care WHY you're destructive.  I see to it that it,  that you STOP!

 Cognitively, your brain doesn't realize what it's doing.  You're engaging in patterns which keep repeating, even though you're well aware that they're ruining your life  ("Westworld").  Strict Spanking Discipline breaks you of those patterns by reprogramming you to disengage.

 Your brain is the frog that sits in the pan of slowly heating water. Habit is familiar and familiar is comfortable until, of course,  it isn't. Habits come in two ways:  Compulsive behavior; like throwing temper tantrums, eating when you aren't hungry, overspending or excessive time on the internet; and addictions such as cigarette smoking, drugs, and alcohol.
In the same way, the spankings your mother gave you as a child ( or a  least should have) set the boundaries you dared not cross; as an adult, a good sound, no-nonsense bare bottom spanking can now break you of those habits to keep you on course.  Spanking is not, I repeat not abuse. It should be delivered only on the bare bottom and never to the point of obviously sadistic physical injury.

That being said,  behavioral spanking is not playful and although every threshold is different,  a spanking hurts; which is unconsciously the precise reason why you behave long after your sore bottom is a vague memory.  You will, however, remember the consequences you paid when you stepped out of line.

In some cases, a single lesson works; for others, weekly, monthly or bi-yearly are in order. In any event, after the initial goal has been accomplished a degree of maintenance will be required.
Nevertheless, your burden is lifted,  your mind is at rest, you're free from compulsion and most importantly, your brain is reset.

Smooth sailing from then on.



Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

Website: 
www.georgiacane.com  


NYC Spanking Disciplinarian