STARS and STRIPES and SPANKING MANTAINENCE: GEORGIA CANE (NYC)

  

Ladies:


This is a reminder from Miss Cane.

Your Alpha male is driven by generous servings of energy, confidence,  curiosity and drive;
and at least,  once upon a time  you found these traits attractive.
They can be again.

The problem is drive turns into overdrive making him nervous, barking and controlling. You may be climbing the walls but he's careening out of control,  praying for someone to hit the brakes and shut off the engine.  That someone is you.  So Ladies as a Disciplinarian,  I strongly suggest for the benefit of his equilibrium - and your own - that you enforce authority.

For example; when least expected, you may order your partner to strip bare and to don an apron. Leather strap in hand, march him to the kitchen and tell him to do some task of your choosing.
Then warn him of the  consequences should he fail to properly complete that task; which, of course,  he won't.

Now you may express your displeasure by bending him over the block; lashing his exposed, bare bottom with a hard, thin belt until pain and tears line his face and raised welts mark his bruised and tender skin.
And always remember Ladies,  it's enough only when you say it is; and not a second before.

But when the spanking ends and you soothe his burn and wipe his tears away,  he's rebalanced relieved and grateful.  That means you've established your authority and that all your headaches are at an end  (until thedoit-orelse.blogspot.com next time anyway).

                                    HAPPY INDEPENDENCE LADIES
                                                 





Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

www.georgiacane.com

 NYC Spanking Disciplinarian

SPANKING DISCIPLINE IS TAKING CHARGE: GEORGIA CANE (NYC)

For a while,  I felt strongly I'd said all about spanking I needed to say.  I was wrong.
Whether it is role play, age regression or addressing issues which are disrupting or hindering your life,  seeking Spanking Discipline is about one thing and one thing only; taking charge.  By that I mean YOU are taking charge of your life.

Just as doctors don't heal themselves, we can't be objective enough to see ourselves clearly; and when it comes to corporal punishment or strict behavioral correction, trust me that, no matter how determined you may be, you will not go much beyond the comfort zone.  Even in role play of any kind, you must be seen through the eyes of an authority who appreciates and fully participates in the experience.  A disciplinarian must key into both what's said and, more importantly, what's unsaid.

Focus and respect are key to ending self-destructive patterns of behavior  - from procrastination to abuse -  or for some, to clearly revisit the crux of a profound, life-directing event either left unaddressed or which held you in good stead.

In essence,  spanking discipline is self-discipline. One must cede control to a mature and savvy authority but one who will not suffer foolishness nor excuse wrong behavior but instead holds you accountable and makes you feel the consequences of wrongdoing.  That way the penalty is paid, your conscience is clear. You're left with a renewed energy, a clearer head,  clean slate,  a nicely burning bottom. And that's what it means to take charge.

Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

www.georgiacane.com


NYC Spanking

New Year Resolution and Result Review

Happy New Year,  naughty boys, fresh girls, Dominant wives, misbehaving husbands, sly incorrigibles, would-be miscreants and spankophiles in general. The festivities are behind you and you've made your resolutions but,  as you know,  action initiates change. 

A  resolution is not a result, nor is worry - regardless of how obsessive  - a solution.  Never forget that nothing stays the same.   You are either going forward or backward at all times.  

Therefore you will review old patterns of behavior and, should you find them lacking,  adapt new ones that yield positive effects and more tangible results. 

I wish all of you a very healthy, sane, happy, and prosperous year.   

And remember.
Boys Learn When Bottoms Burn (and naughty girls do too).


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

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Georgia Cane Spanking Disciplinarian

NYC Spanking Disiplinarian