GEORGIA CANE : SPANK or BE SPANKED (NYC)

Ladies, mother taught you of life and men so that you'd be in charge of them both.  

That is why when you were a teen, she gave you curfew.  If you stayed past it, there were consequences and the penalty was severe.  Even at sixteen, you were not too grown to go over her knee with skirt up and undies down while she repeatedly applied her hairbrush, bare hand and belt to your bare bottom until it was red, sore and burning hot.  And on a date, the threat of that spanking  took on a life of its own; like some invisible chaperon watching every move that was made.  There was no use sneaking because she was always up waiting.  But boys will be boys and Mother knew  best. 

Spanking was her way of teaching you a valuable lesson:  Life isn't fair; and in it, you will either be in charge of it or pay the price.  To put another way; either you spank life; or life spanks you. 
What better place to start with than boys?

Because men are like children.  They love a challenge and it's for this reason alone, they'll use charm and their powers to persuade to test your resolve.   But you knew the consequences and why be spanked for something you didn't want to do.  Besides, once you give in, you lose.  

Now that you're an adult with a mind of your own and you've taken Mother's teachings one step further.  Men are like children.  They may cause you trouble if they're not controlled and need the strict discipline you know just how to deliver. 

When he becomes unruly, over your knee he goes, pants down as you repeatedly smack his bare bottom with your hairbrush,  belt and bare hand 'til his behind is red, stinging and burning hot. You control your men as you do your life and the only one spanking is you.    

Thanks, Mom.  
  

Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

Website:     
 www.georgiacane.com

NYC Spanking Disciplinarian


                                               

ROLE PLAY MAY BE FUN BUT IT'S REALLY NOT PRETEND: (Georgia Cane NYC, NY)

I believe there's really nothing frivolous about  role play. Under the guidance of a strict and intuitive Disciplinarian, imaginative role play takes you back to the uncluttered mind of a curious naughty child or a  challenging boy or girl on the verge of young adulthood.  Those were times when  important lessons were learned; lessons that helped you through your entire life and are experiences that should be relived periodically to maintain.

In role play no matter how grown you believed you were, consequences for bad behavior were taught on your bare bottom, often with the palm of an opened hand or hairbrush smacking your cheeks repeatedly -  on one spot -  until it is  red, tender and sore. 
And just as you  remember,  spanking is  done to reinforce a stern scolding.  You don't hit girls.  You don't talk back to the teacher. Peeking in girls locker rooms  gets you pulled by the ear and marched to the principal's office, where she promptly exposes your bottom and bends you over the desk to apply the cane.

For some of you, certain infractions  called for certain punishments. You sassed back now go and get the switch from the bush outside so she can burn your behind up.   Your report card is not up to par so assume the position  over the chair and prepare for the lash of the belt. You took the car without permission.  Get ready to go over her knee to get the spanking of your life. No one cares how grown you think you are.

Now what are the lessons?  Men who deserve respect, do not hit women.   Respect authority and mind your tongue.  It's better to be prudent than unemployed.  Spying on people is invasive and deviant behavior which is actionable by law.  Once the punishment was delivered and the tears subsided, you were made to understand the reasons were for your own good.  It was done to see to it that you became a successful, integrated member of society and was actually no less than a pragmatic form of love.

As a Disciplinarian I believe, from time to time, through role play, we can revisit these important experiences; and there is nothing pretend about that.


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

Website:
 wwww.georgiacane.com


NYC Spanking Disciplinarian

SPANKING DISCIPLINE IS TAKING CHARGE: GEORGIA CANE (NYC)

For a while,  I felt strongly I'd said all about spanking I needed to say.  I was wrong.
Whether it is role play, age regression or addressing issues which are disrupting or hindering your life,  seeking Spanking Discipline is about one thing and one thing only; taking charge.  By that I mean YOU are taking charge of your life.

Just as doctors don't heal themselves, we can't be objective enough to see ourselves clearly; and when it comes to corporal punishment or strict behavioral correction, trust me that, no matter how determined you may be, you will not go much beyond the comfort zone.  Even in role play of any kind, you must be seen through the eyes of an authority who appreciates and fully participates in the experience.  A disciplinarian must key into both what's said and, more importantly, what's unsaid.

Focus and respect are key to ending self-destructive patterns of behavior  - from procrastination to abuse -  or for some, to clearly revisit the crux of a profound, life-directing event either left unaddressed or which held you in good stead.

In essence,  spanking discipline is self-discipline. One must cede control to a mature and savvy authority but one who will not suffer foolishness nor excuse wrong behavior but instead holds you accountable and makes you feel the consequences of wrongdoing.  That way the penalty is paid, your conscience is clear. You're left with a renewed energy, a clearer head,  clean slate,  a nicely burning bottom. And that's what it means to take charge.

Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

www.georgiacane.com


NYC Spanking

New Year Resolution and Result Review

Happy New Year,  naughty boys, fresh girls, Dominant wives, misbehaving husbands, sly incorrigibles, would-be miscreants and spankophiles in general. The festivities are behind you and you've made your resolutions but,  as you know,  action initiates change. 

A  resolution is not a result, nor is worry - regardless of how obsessive  - a solution.  Never forget that nothing stays the same.   You are either going forward or backward at all times.  

Therefore you will review old patterns of behavior and, should you find them lacking,  adapt new ones that yield positive effects and more tangible results. 

I wish all of you a very healthy, sane, happy, and prosperous year.   

And remember.
Boys Learn When Bottoms Burn (and naughty girls do too).


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

Website: 
Georgia Cane Spanking Disciplinarian

NYC Spanking Disiplinarian

SPANKING AND COGNITIVE BEHAVIOR: DISCIPLINE FROM BACKSIDE TO BRAIN

We may think we understand our actions and the reasons why we do the things we do; but not always.  You may even believe that, by now, your personalities are set in stone as you seem to become more rigid with every passing year. And you may even tell yourselves that you're just "set in your way" but this too is not necessarily the case.  As a Disciplinarian, I know this: habits can be broken and Discipline changes behavior.  Think of your brain as a kind of computer. Now imagine your bottom the hard drive.  Not unlike clearing and resetting your computer from a virus;  a spanking reconfigures your brain, and age does not matter.   Even the most deeply entrenched habits of mature men and women are changed and not for a week,  month or for a year. They are changed for a LIFETIME.

Your brain has been programmed (like a computer) for quite a while.  Make no mistake.  It takes no shortage of expertise to access and replace the negative input with the positive.  Experience has proven that sound verbal correction along with regular application of the Belt, Paddle, Tawse or Cane on the bare bottom, is the best method; which is why clients tell me that I've done more for them in a single spanking than they've received from years of talk therapy.

The difference being:  I don't care WHY you're destructive.  I see to it that it,  that you STOP!

 Cognitively, your brain doesn't realize what it's doing.  You're engaging in patterns which keep repeating, even though you're well aware that they're ruining your life  ("Westworld").  Strict Spanking Discipline breaks you of those patterns by reprogramming you to disengage.

 Your brain is the frog that sits in the pan of slowly heating water. Habit is familiar and familiar is comfortable until, of course,  it isn't. Habits come in two ways:  Compulsive behavior; like throwing temper tantrums, eating when you aren't hungry, overspending or excessive time on the internet; and addictions such as cigarette smoking, drugs, and alcohol.
In the same way, the spankings your mother gave you as a child ( or a  least should have) set the boundaries you dared not cross; as an adult, a good sound, no-nonsense bare bottom spanking can now break you of those habits to keep you on course.  Spanking is not, I repeat not abuse. It should be delivered only on the bare bottom and never to the point of obviously sadistic physical injury.

That being said,  behavioral spanking is not playful and although every threshold is different,  a spanking hurts; which is unconsciously the precise reason why you behave long after your sore bottom is a vague memory.  You will, however, remember the consequences you paid when you stepped out of line.

In some cases, a single lesson works; for others, weekly, monthly or bi-yearly are in order. In any event, after the initial goal has been accomplished a degree of maintenance will be required.
Nevertheless, your burden is lifted,  your mind is at rest, you're free from compulsion and most importantly, your brain is reset.

Smooth sailing from then on.



Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

Website: 
www.georgiacane.com  


NYC Spanking Disciplinarian

BRIEF ANNOUNCEMENT : NEW ADDRESS

To all my miscreants, incorrigibles and delinquents; naughty boys,  fresh girls and you who keep forgetting your manners:
Report for your discipline at my new, private, downtown Manhattan location. 

It's the perfect place to take you in hand and redden your misbehaving, bare bottom with my belt, hairbrush, paddles, tawse or cane. 

You may plead all you like, but there'll be no one to hear you except me.  



Remember:
Boys Learn When Bottoms Burn, 
(and girls do too).  


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

 www.georgiacane.com

NYC Spanking Disciplinarian


(And now we will return to our regularly scheduled program)

DISCIPLINE and the CONSEQUENCES of PROWLING

You like to roam. You like to stray down dark alleys and wander through doorways; and you're especially fond of visiting places where you shouldn't be.  The next day brings a few pangs of guilt so you say you won't do it again, although mainly because you know the consequences will outweigh the crime.  But then the call of the wild returns.  It's becoming a habit; of the kind that must be broken.  Because habit leads to compulsion;  compulsion leads to addiction and addiction leads to disaster.  You must make a decision.  Either suffer the consequences of private humiliation, financial loss and public ridicule or submit to the authority of an iron-fisted disciplinarian who will curb your prowling and keep you in line.

Realize that, as an adult, penalties for bad behavior are more costly than when you were a child.  There are wives or husbands and careers to consider, not to mention social standing ; whatever yours happens to be.

It's said, that we are free to choose our actions but not free to choose the consequences of our actions.  I believe, as a disciplinarian,  that punishment should be measured to you like a finely tailored suit but never executed according to your specifications, instead only to hers.

Now some of you may need going over the knee for a few good, sound , smacks of a bare hand to your bare bottom until your cheeks are red and tender and then perhaps a wooden hairbrush or paddle to finish the job.  Still others require harsher measures such as bending your bare bottom over a chair to have it lashed twenty times with a hard leather strap and that followed by twenty five slow, methodical blows of a wide leather paddle. 

But for miscreants, more draconian methods must be applied. That means laying down on a couch or bed for twenty lashes on the bare bottom with a thick Scottish tawse - a few seconds rest - then over a chair for twenty of the best with the cane.

Transgressions are not taken lightly.   

So the next time  you feel the urge to cruise,  end up in the hands of a serious disciplinarian; one who will burn your behind, reset your brain and bring your prowling under control. Now your bottom is warm, you're mind is clear, you're free from compulsion and the guilt is gone.  

There are consequences which are good after all.  
  

Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane


Website:
www.georgiacane.com

NYC Spanking Disciplianarian


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