Tuesday, December 2, 2014

SPANKING DISCIPLINE and RECONDITIONING YOUR MAN

Lately I've been getting emails from wives asking me if they should be spanking their husbands. As a Disciplinarian, here is what I can tell you.
Ladies, the unfortunate truth is; men treat you the way that you allow them. Give an inch,and they will take a mile. For some reason, men, like children, don't automatically play fair. They must be shown how you want them to behave.
And I know many of you don't want to be "that woman" whose whining and complaining. You may have even gone out of your way to excuse behavior that you found irritating or you knew in your heart was wrong. Yet instead of him being appreciative of your tolerance, he's just gotten worse.

What you failed to realize, is that it is you who taught him to act this way. That by not putting your foot down the first time, you, gave tacit permission and conditioned him to take you for granted.

The Alpha male is a dominant in the outside world, but at home, you are the one in charge. Now to undo the damage and recondition your man. And you better mean business.
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Be clear that you will no longer put up with his rude , dismissive behavior and when he displeases you again, you will spank his bare behind red, black and blue.
Make this the first and last warning.



Then the next time he ignores you in bed, spends too much time on the internet, comes home intoxicated, or is even wearing your thong and slippers; look him dead in the eye, take off his underpants, turn him over your knee, and burn his bare behind up. Should you have a hair bush handy; use that on his backside too.
Once he understands there are consequences, Ladies, his attitude will begin to change and when he acts out in public - and he will - very discretely say "...just wait till we get home". He will calm down immediately with plenty of time to dread what is in store.

Be consistent. Administer regular spankings if necessary and before long, your spouse will be retrained.

 Because like boys, the man in your life wants a strong, capable woman who commands respect, sets hard limits and, who spanks his bare bottom whenever she sees fit.

Like I've always said, Boys Learn When Bottoms Burn.

Happy Spanking.
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Sunday, October 5, 2014

SPANKING : PENANCE vs PUNISHMENT



There are times when more severe methods of domestic discipline are required . .

You've done something that must remain secret. But the guilt and fear are increasingly heavy to lift. .




Or have compulsions you are helpless to control.


For validation you may see a psychiatrist; who will say you've done nothing wrong.



If it's penance you seek, see a priest who'll absolve you of your crimes with a wave of the hand
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But Confession isn't always good for the soul.


Only pain cleans a guilt ridden conscience.


  
The blows of hard wood and leather on your bare and bruised bottom, followed by repeated lashes of the cane bring you tears of agony. You have no influence. You are at the complete mercy of a disciplinarian who punishes you as she alone sees fit.
Because only then you will be truly penitent.



                                                    And more importantly - free




Warm Bottoms ,
Georgia Cane

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Sunday, September 28, 2014

GEORGIA CANE: CLEARING the AIR ABOUT ADULT SPANKING DISCIPLINE

I'd like to clear the air.

In my opinion, it's as appropriate to spank an adult on the bare bottom as it is to spank a child.

 When a parent spanks  their boy or girl on their bare bottom ,   it should be of no great  surprise that they desire this for themselves as adults.
In part, because it became  a form of self discipline; associated with care and positive results and yet  the way it's carried out is as private and unique as they are.

What was good for the child, is now good for the adult  in the same ways and for the same reasons.

Age is but a number after all.

Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane


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HANDS THAT LOVE - SPANK

Hands that spank are hands that love
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When you were a child, your Mother's hands meant everything to you.          

They held you close to her out in a big world and made you feel safe.


They cradled you when you were a baby, washed your tummy and behind your ears in warm sudsy baths;
and cut your food when you were too little to do it yourself. You can't begin to count the times she soothed your forehand and wiped your tears away
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But when you were bad, they also spanked your behind.
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Those same hands that wiped your tears now took you by the ear, pulled down your pants; exposed your bare bottom and pointed a finger in your face to scold you. But when she took her hand and grabbed you over her knee, the next things you saw - were stars. Cry and holler for mercy until the cows come home, but she would not stop.
Because you were hard headed.
   And as I say, a hard head makes a red behind.



That's called discipline.


I strongly believe when adults break the rules of conduct, that the same strict method applies.
I mean a sound, no nonsense, over the knee, bare handed, bottom burning spanking.

And like your mother, I, as a disciplinarian, understand that spanking discipline is another form of care,

and sometimes caring is painful, but in the right hands, it is always for your own good.






Warm Bottom, Georgia Cane

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Tuesday, July 15, 2014

DETENTION: PUNISHMENT SPANKING and DISCIPLINE










It's 10:00 am and the teacher has looked at you several times for disrupting the class. And now she has had enough. When your classmates leave, you will remain.
You are in detention.




You are fourteen years old. In three years you will be graduated but what kind of miscreant might you turn out to be? As any serious disciplinarian knows, it is the teacher's responsibility, to correct a boy's errant behavior when clearly, proper training is not received at home. And in this case, there must be punishment and to save you, it must be severe.




Teacher has overheard you making some rather cheeky remarks behind her back. Therefore, you will write on the blackboard, "I will not talk during class ", fifty times.



Next, what you would not learn from your brain, you will learn from your bottom. You will be taken you over her knee, and receive fifty-five hard blows of the paddle on your bare bottom. Plead all you like. She will grant no mercy.
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Lastly,and so that you fully understand you will pay serious consequences whenever you disrespect the teacher, you will be bent over her desk, bruised and tender behind exposed and receive an additional one hundred and twenty strokes of the the cane.



Stand in the corner, and contemplate your punishment.





Teacher has taken the time and extreme effort to give you the corporal discipline you need but did not receive at home. You are to acknowledge her and thank her. Be grateful to her that she has cared enough to set you on the straight and narrow path.



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Friday, June 27, 2014

SPANKING YOUR HUSBAND'S BARE BOTTOM


Whether they admit this or not, it is clear to me that most husbands know when they need to be spanked. And by spanked I don't mean the playful, arousing, naughty kind. I mean the over the knee, bare behind walloping their mothers used to give with plenty of tears, kicking legs and begging that falls on deaf ears. The type which changes behavior. But, contrary to popular opinion, not all men marry their 'mothers' . And while I'm sure the women they've chosen have abilities, burning her husbands behind is simply not one of them. But then, that's what Disciplinarians are for.
Fair enough to say women admire Type A Personality men. It's both reassuring and seductive having a dominant, 'take charge, ' spouse around. But they can be a ;pain in the 'A' as well. And often the very things she finds attractive in him are also the cause of headaches. Confidence is arrogance. Understanding is condescending. Strong-will is overbearing. Caring is controlling. And sometimes he's just plain mean. He knows he should be disciplined. Believe me. But more than likely, he's not inclined to spank himself (and even if he were...). And ultimately, he's yours and you are responsible.
Here is the solution.
Either you will have a mature, experienced Disciplinarian teach you how to deliver a proper spanking
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or I will spank him for you.
Give me your list of grievances. I will make it clear to him what's about to happen and why. Then be assured, when I am through putting him through his paces, he will be most considerate from then on.
Contrite, of course, but the happier for it because he has been brought back in line just as his mother used to do.
It's as I say. Most husbands need a good, bare bottom spanking from time to time and Alpha (Sigma too) So, if the wife would like spanking lessons, I'll teach her. But if she just can't spank his behind, even when he deserves it , then, on her behalf, I will put him over my knee, and spank his bare bottom for her.
Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

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Monday, June 16, 2014

SPANKING and WHY MOTHER NATURE MADE YOU LIKE IT





 I believe Nature eroticized spanking so that we would be willing to receive the pain that serves as a teaching tool for our own good.

 As a Disciplinarian, I've often heard stories from people who, when they were young, spied on a playmate  being  spanked -  hard - over the knee and  on their bare bottoms. They cringed at the blows the mother leveled on his sore behind,  and yet  they were fascinated.  The reason being;  although he was too young to process  this, it was, to him,  erotic. 

It is, after all, the bare bottom. 



And  from a very early age we feel our bottoms are private and  a vague sexuality,  begins.   So it's not uncommon to find later in life,  whether he was  ever spanked, or not, that he needs to reconnect with the  experience.  And  in my opinion, he's one of the lucky ones.
  
  He  benefits  from being able to  lay across  a strong woman's knee  to receive, the sound and painful,  spanking  which sends a message directly to his bare bottom,  straight to his brain from her bare hand;  making sure it all 'sinks in'.   


If it's punishment that's required to rid him of guilt or make him tow the line; or if he must cry in order to cleans himself inside, he is now under the same care and good stead as a child  of a strict and concerned mother.  
  
 So  again, I believe that Nature eroticized the pain of spanking discipline so that we would learn to love it. 
     

  
 Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane  

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