Wednesday, February 27, 2019
As a Disciplinarian, I've answered nearly every conceivable question concerning adult spanking discipline. But "ALL THINGS SPANKING" has a question of its own.
Georgia Cane is New York City Disciplinarian who has a strong appearance and equally powerful demeanor. She's been a friend of "All Things Spanking" for quite some time, and we occasionally draw upon her advice. Recently she answered a question we posed and I thought it would be good to share here.
ATS: You recently appeared in a BuzzFeed video related to the use of consensual, adult spanking and how its practice has grown. In the video, you look like the quintessential 1950's Mom ready to "counsel" her family. The individuals spanked remained clothed - leggings or jeans as I recall - and that is how you dealt with them. Is that how you normally practice in this thing we do?
Georgia Cane: That was all Buzzfeed's idea; sort of the Disney version spanking discipline.
I'm not that vanilla and, to be honest, I was surprised they contacted me.
I think we all know that adult discipline is kink, but their focus was on how spanking changes behavior and, since my sites address this, they asked for an interview.
Then the day before we were scheduled to meet, they informed me that two female producers requested a spanking - on video.
I had concerns.
Now, because it's Buzzfeed, I'm wearing the most vanilla thing I own to spank two arrogant women in bicycle shorts. But discipline is discipline; so I made them fear me a little, gave them orders then smacked their bottoms, repeatedly, for emphasis. Apparently, it worked.
However, real sessions look nothing like that.
I'm tall (5'11"), a size 4-6 and I prefer black form-fitting dresses, stockings, and heels. My clients might be spanked locked over my knee with only their bare bottoms exposed or bent, fully naked on a kneeling bench and whipped with a leather belt, tawse, cane or perhaps all three. Sometimes, I don't use words except to give orders and count the number of lashes to the bare bottom. Other times, my words alone make them cry.
The goal is to reach your catharsis by whatever works best.
And by the way: I've never called it 'therapy'.
Georgia Cane Spanking Disciplinarian
*ALL THINGS SPANKING
*February 16, 2019
Wednesday, October 3, 2018
GEORGIA CANE DISCIPLINARIAN (NYC): SPANKING COUNSELING FOR THE BOTH OF YOU BECAUSE NEITHER ONE BEHAVES
So here it is.
She thinks that you're a shameless flirt and he feels you're insecure. She believes that you're ignoring her and he sees you as a diva. He's weary of your constant nit-picking and her of wet towels on the bathroom floor. She'd like you home for dinner more but you're always working late. And now he's at the computer until very late at night while you're in bed texting a Facebook friend you used to date in high school. There is trouble brewing and action required. Couple's counselors make you ask your partner how it makes them feel when you do this or that. But the truth is, you already know how it makes them feel, which is the reason you do it, to begin with. I suggest then instead of this pretense, that you air your grievances to a mature, impartial female authority; one who will listen carefully, judge fairly and then deliver a strict, no-nonsense, bare bottom spanking equally to you both.
Because neither party is blameless. The two of you are bored, willful, selfish, stubborn and I believe that you should receive your punishment side by side with one witnessing the other.
For his wandering eye, you enjoy watching him wince as she grips a heavy tawse and counts the forty blows that are welting his exposed bare bottom. And, for your incessant nagging and massive insecurity, he's pleased with the spectacle of your upturned bare bottom as it's striped by a slender rattan cane.
Then kneeling on all fours, face to face, you receive twenty blows of a thick leather paddle, alternating between first her bruised cheeks and then your own.
The air is cleared, the tears are shed and two bottoms are smartly smacked. Now you can view one another with appreciative eyes and promise to be nice. But don't forget. If this conduct begins again, a pair of bare bottoms, well spanked, await you in the very near future. Then again, what could be warmer than that?
NYC Spanking Disciplinarian
Tuesday, June 19, 2018
"Shooting Stars Never Stop; Even When They Reach The Top"
-Frankie Goes to Hollywood-
Since you are considered to be a star, by now you have guessed that there is no such thing as reaching the top. The top does not exist. No matter how high you rise, there is higher to go. You understand life is motion and goals are either closer or farther from reach than on the day before. Yet I believe that even stars must be galvanized at times, and a strict, no-nonsense authority will see to it you maintain focus, push past limits and exceed all expectations.
Remember. Pride in achievement is one thing, but complacency will have you fade. Then you'll be merely an imprint of the person you once were.
To ensure this never happens, I suggest that a mature Disciplinarian take a wooden hairbrush to your bare bottom, and smack it repeatedly while you struggle on her lap pleading through tears for mercy; then direct your raw, welted cheeks to sit squarely on a wicker chair and recite; "I will not rest upon my laurels" as the bamboo burns this deep into your brain.
Finally, spurring you to excellence, you're bent over said chair for thirty of the best of her heavy leather belt on your flamed and smarting behind.
For the next three days, your behind is tender to the touch and warm. You have been cleansed, energized, and focused. You shine and for you, there are no limitations, only new horizons to explore. And if ever you should hear the words "Shooting stars never stop, even when they reach the top" you will know for certain that's you.
Georgia Cane Spanking Disciplinarian
NYC Spanking Disciplinarian
Saturday, February 10, 2018
If any Ladies still believe that spanking your husbands is untoward, peculiar or new, let me correct that misconception. Wives have been spanking their husbands for more than six hundred years and likely from the time of Lilith; so if they find anything new under the sun, this will not be it. Men, like boys, are willful. They will always require a strict and strong woman who'll keep them in line and even, if necessary, smack their bottoms black and blue. Such is the case since time began.
As a Disciplinarian, I believe it's important to know how and when to pull in his reigns or else catastrophe is close behind. I suggest that when your husband is too big for his britches, take them down and burn his bare backside well. Remind him that, where ever he goes, his actions have consequences and that home is no exception.
Make sure to position him over your knee, and to find the plumpest spot on his upturned behind. Then take your favorite wood hairbrush, and crack his cheeks repeatedly until tears streak his face and he understands that you mean business. And since skin to skin sends the message best, deliver another twenty barehanded blows to his throbbing backside for good measure. Let him struggle, plead and beg your forgiveness. It's to no avail. The only sound you hear is the smack of your hand on his sore, bare bottom echoing throughout the room.
All through history, men have relied on a strong, no-nonsense woman to spank him hard and keep him in line. She knows his tears are the catharsis that relieves his guilt, renews his spirit and wipes his conscience clean. And she makes sure his cheeks are on fire for days afterward.
Because, after all, he enjoys a warm and tingling bottom too.
NYC Spanking Disciplarian
Friday, November 17, 2017
I believe, as a Disciplinarian, there are four purposes to spanking correction: Chastisement, Discipline, Punishment, and Catharsis.
Chastisement sees that you realize the nature of your behavior, and that you understand life's penalties often are more draconian than a Disciplinarian may impose. Every lash of the strap she wields on your bare bottom is serving as a painful reminder to you that better is always expected.
Discipline is to break you of bad habits and train you in good ones. Do exactly as she instructs. Her standards are high. A good Disciplinarian accepts no less than excellence. You will strive in all things for maximum performance, in part because you're now aware of consequences.
Punishment, there are few words. "You know why we're here". "Bend!" "Kneel"! "Grab your ankles and spread your legs" will generally suffice. Position yourself on the kneeling bench. Receive the counted, measured blows on your bare and tender bottom, immediately followed with, perhaps, a spray of rubbing alcohol directly on the welts, and the burning wet spanking resumes. Or lying prone on a couch, bare bottom faced meeting the repeated smacks of a thick rawhide, leather tawse until she feels the price is paid.
But all roads lead to catharsis. Tears clean you inside, guilt melts away and your spirit renewed. You're now calm, reinvigorated and at peace. What you've experienced is for your own good. Each word is carefully selected and every stroke purposefully applied.
A spanking is, after all, not only to hold you in good stead but to enjoy your very nicely burning bottom as well.
NYC Spanking Disciplinarian
Monday, September 18, 2017
I believe that, by most people, you're considered to be successful. You're often described as principled, thoughtful and fair, and a decisive yet diplomatic leader. Yet, as I'm sure you'll remember, this was not always the case; in fact, quite the opposite. As an eleven-year-old boy in Catholic School, you were a rascally mischief-maker, a big personality with crafty little ways and an angelic, baby face. But of course, looks are deceiving. You were a wisenheimer talking out of turn; coming late to class, rolling your eyes at the lay teachers, and making snide remarks. You used profanity in the hallways and turned in your homework late (those times you turned it in at all). If not for the concern of a very strict nun with a paddle that spanked your behind; your reputation would be different from the one you enjoy today.
As it happened, you were invited for an afternoon of detention with Mother Superior; towering, no-nonsense School Principle, and strict, big-handed Disciplinarian. She had observed your wisenheimer antics for some time decided to intervene.
Upon entering her office, without greeting or fanfare, your pants come down and underwear off. Then over her desk you're thrown - positioned just so - as a brass ruler smacks your skin, blistering your bottom while rivulets of tears stain your cheeks. You're then pulled up by the ear, turned to the blackboard and ordered to read the School Rules aloud. Each rule is followed by a sound of her enormous bare hand slapping a small bare bottom.
I will be polite at all times or I will be spanked.
I will do homework on time or I will be spanked.
I will pay attention in class or I will be spanked.
I will not roll my eyes or I will be spanked.
I will not use profanity or I will be spanked.
I will never be late or be spanked...
Now hold your ankles and be roundly lashed with a long leather strap; five times for each infraction.
And still, in your shirt, jacket, tie, and vest, you're once more marched bottomless by the ear, into the corner. She places a Dunce Cap on your head and you are to stand motionless. She pays no mind that you're flushed with shame. Instead, she sits at her desk, does paperwork and takes calls. But whenever you move an inch, she slams you again, this time with her leather paddle and blocking your bottom earns five more withering blows
After an hour or so of corner time and occasional paddling, you are permitted to dress.
You're subdued and humbled; not quite the smart aleck of three hours ago; and although your bottom is raw and stings at the touch, the lessons you have learned about manners, responsibility, and self-control serve you well in life.
So keep a good thought for Mother Superior, the Disciplinarian behind things you enjoy today; your success, your stature, and fondness for a nicely burning bottom.
NYC Spanking Disciplinarian
Monday, September 4, 2017
Labor Day is here to signal the end of summer. It's the last day for primary colors, anything white, straw hats, seer sucker suits and for packing the gauzy skirts and halter tops away. But by no means was Labor Day created to mark the change of season. It is to commemorate American workers who help make our business and country thrive and a reminder to treat them with respect. Where would you be without a personal assistant to anticipate your needs; or a Word Processor following faithfully your illegible scrawl or your driver waiting patiently to bring you to and from the office? But too often, you take their services for granted. That's when a bottom - blistering spanking from a strong Disciplinarian is needed to remind you of proper protocol.
For your own good, you are put in the subordinate position; this means in your office and fully bare. Then you're lead by the ear to the corner with your nose touching the wall and hands behind your back. There you will stand, flush with fear and anticipation as she recites the litany of reasons it is wise to respect your staff; and that your zingers and tirade inhibit creativity costing the company potential earnings. For that alone, I feel you should be publicly thrashed.
From the desk, you're bent over a chair and positioned just so. Then, on behalf of all terrified personnel, your bottom is generously sprayed with water and a flat leather strap roundly slaps your bare behind. And since a sound spanking should be - full of sound - the snap of leather on your wet skin will ring in your ears.
Then after sixty or so lashes of the strap (or before her arm gets tired) sterner measures will take place and you feel for the crack of the hairbrush on your bruised and sore behind. Scream 'til your face is blue. She's heard it all before. And please, spare her the Three P's: Protests, Pleading, and Promises. By now they are music to her ears (and that water bottle can be replaced with rubbing alcohol; so quit while you're ahead).
And then she's done. Congratulations! This valuable reminder will hold you in good stead the coming fiscal year. You won't soon forget a happy worker is a productive one and the key to success is an appreciative boss with a nicely burning bottom.
And that is the purpose of Labor Day.
NYC Spanking Disciplinarian