"Everything you can imagine is real." - Pablo Picasso
There may be a time when you need to re-experience a defining , disciplinary moment in your life and find someone who comprehends, guides you in the corporal correction you remember. She must have eyes that see the eleven year old boy playing near the tracks or swimming alone across the lake; then take you across her knee and redden your behind until you are in tears.
In adult spanking discipline, vision takes imagination and imagination becomes reality.
A Disciplinarian knows she is the embodiment of your aunt, teacher and neighbor who taught the consequences of bad behavior and she will return you to the child, teenager or both you remember.
She will put you in that position your aunt demanded; on her lap or over her chair and feel her bare hand, slipper, hairbrush or belt reddening your bare and tender eleven year old bottom. The pain and tears erase everything from your mind. You are that boy.
We are all both male and female and, at times, that girl -or boy- inside getting away with mischief needs spanking and disciplining too. Their spanking is long overdue and they must be given attention.
Others of you are tyrants at home or at work. In this case, turn about is fair play. As disciplinarian, I believe you should serve and be punished for least little thing. Nothing less than perfection will do; and if you are perfect, you be will punished for no reason at all.
But you'll be the happier for it.
In adult behavioral correction, the only truth is what you feel.