Wednesday, April 30, 2014

SPANKING ETIQUETTE TRAINING FOR BOYS

(New York City , NY)

I previously shared with you that I believed the mid 1950's and '60's, had women who were more ladylike than they are today, and that some women, both young and mature, could use serious etiquette training with spanking Discipline and would be the happier for it.
Well 'what's good for the goose, is good for the gander' and just  as women are expected  to behave as ladies, men are required to be gentlemen; and if they don't know how, they should be spanked until they learn.


In his book, "Manners Mayketh Man", Edward John Hardy wrote of manners as being "...shadows of virtues, if not virtues themselves." In other words, good manners indicate that you  practice good conduct not only socially, but personally and professionally as well.  

Now I'm not saying to bring back the days of extreme chivalry,     

 or  borderline foppishness. 

But there are standards.  

 Once, schools turned out young men who were not only well  educated, but Disciplined.



A misbehaving student was sent to the school Disciplinarian. There in his office. he was instructed to bend over, pull down his  trousers and take the paddle to his bare bottom. Even then, he was congratulated for receiving his punishment stoically - without tears.  


The fundamental rules still apply and I am more than willing to enforce them.  

Here are the basics: Remove your hat in the presence of a lady or when you enter a room. Always walk with her on the traffic side of the street. Pull out her chair and open both entrance doors and car doors for her.

In my etiquette training, deviation from those simple rules will be met with one hundred and fifty (150) hard, bare handed smacks on your bare behind.

Dining Etiquette.  


When table manners are bad enough for your wife to relinquish hope.  Tell her to send you to me. She may rest assured that I'll take it from there.

The very first thing I'll do is put you over my knee, remove your underpants and deliver seventy five severe hand smacks on your bare behind, then  bend you over a bench for another twenty five lashes of my belt. After that, we will begin training. And yes, it's intense

but the next time you're dining at say Palm One, you will be the perfect companion.

 Realistically of course, no one can stop a healthy male's wandering eye, but when you're on a date and can't use discretion,  here is the lesson you will receive.

You will remove your underwear and step out. Bend from the waist and grab your ankles. Now that I see your bottom is in full view, I  thrash it with my birch. It stings. I see your welts and you howl in pain.  But I don't stop.  Because this is they way  boys learn.



I believe,  without a doubt, that women should routinely Discipline men and punish them for bad behavior to keep them in check.  



                          


Because you men need reminding and few things reinforce cognition more than applying a bare hand, paddle, or birch  to your bare bottom.

And while you may, or may not, have gone to an English boarding school, a taste of spanking etiquette training will make it seem like you have; and that by itself,  will take you a very long way.


Boys Learn When Bottoms Burn



Georgia Cane: Disciplinarian

http://allthingsspanking.com/2014/06/18/an-interview-with-miss-georgia-cane/

Friday, April 11, 2014

Spanking Discipline: For Training in Manners and Etiquette

(New York City , NY)


A lot has changed since the mid '50s and 60's, in the way young women behave themselves and it's sad to say, not all for the better.  Conducting yourself like a lady, nowadays, is quaint and it's become common to drink like a fish,to be crude, sexually overt, and to show as much skin as is legally possible.  The Mystery is gone.  As a Disciplinarian, I believe it's high time to bring it back.

Not every girl in the early 60's had a strict upbringing,  went to finishing school or had a governess drilling them on the finer points of conduct.  Nevertheless, society was such that every  girl knew the basics, whether she chose to apply them or not.   

But watch any award show today or open a magazine, and you'll see women - in the public eye -  slouching and round shouldered in designer dresses, lumbering around in heels, or clearly under the influence.  Is it any wonder young women (and mature ones too) act accordingly?  In my opinion, these women need to brought under authority to learn the rudiments of  acceptable feminine behavior. 

And if you have a young woman that you truly care for who is rowdy and out of control,  it is your responsibility  to you drag her  off the street, clean her up and send her to a Disciplinarian for training  -  before it's too late. 




For everything one does, there is a right way and a wrong way.  Proper comportment is no exception.  I will brook no nonsense and take her in hand immediately.  Perhaps even put her over my knee and give her a good, sound bare bottom spanking to set the record straight as to who is in charge. 

People can tell a great deal about a woman by the way she carries herself,   and proper posture is extremely important. There will be no slouching.  She will balance books on top of her head - hours on end if necessary - until  she learns to rise to her full height and move with fluidity and grace.   



She will also learn to sit like a lady, to stand back - straight,  to enter a room, hold a cocktail  or a cup of tea; how to cross and uncross her legs, modulate her voice and (although I don't encourage it) to smoke a cigarette. 


 I demand perfection and will achieve this  at all costs, so if,  for any reason, I feel that she is not giving her all, not only will I spank her sore bottom again, but she may be caned as well. Afterward - raw, welted and all - I will make her sit on a hard wooden chair  to reconsider the wisdom of her defiance.



 


Of course, I do all this for her own good.  Because I'm certain that every woman - young and mature alike - desires to be lady but one whose manners don't appear  studied, and more "to the manner born". Since that's rarely the case these days,merciless etiquette training and strict corporal discipline is required.

However, there will be metamorphosis. 



And in the end, she will be grateful to you for taking this action -  and you will be more than pleased with yourself - but do try to remember,that being a lady takes constant practice and occasional reinforcement.  So if she becomes lax, don't be irritated.     Send her to be Disciplined.


                                              

  



Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane


Georgia Cane: Disciplinarian

http://allthingsspanking.com/2014/06/18/an-interview-with-miss-georgia-cane/

Thursday, April 3, 2014

SPANKING DISCIPLINE IS MARRIAGE COUNSELING THAT WORKS (New York City , NY)


It's my belief, as a Disciplinarian, that traditional couples therapy is often not effective.  That's because it fails to deal squarely on two key issues - consideration and accountability  - and they're important. 

Mother began teaching you, at an early age, to be nice, play fair; and to share your toys with playmates.  Back then, if  she caught you snatching things from your little friends hands, just to made them cry, or hit people- especially a boy hitting a girl - she took you over her knee, pulled down your underwear pants and spanked your bare bottom smartly.  While, I'm sure, you didn't appreciate this at the time, you understand today the merits of generosity and fair play  that your mother instilled. I believe those same lessons should apply in all the relationships in your life -  including marriage.



In the beginning, marriage can be exciting;  almost as if  your partners are your brand new toys. But then, like everything new, their shine gets dull and what was exciting once is for granted now. 
You become insensitive and say whatever you like. You will not play fair, you want everything your way - no matter what - and  you refuse to compromise. You may even be downright stingy and  bear in mind, this  goes for you both. Truth be told, it's not discussing who pushed who first which is important here - it's the lack of discipline - and that's why you both need spanking.

Because, unless your partner is a control freak, bully or vampire ( in which case, you should be spanked  for staying)  your issues can be resolved but traditional therapy may actually raise more problems than solve.  On the other hand, Spanking Discipline is simple.  

First: Admit to what you do to annoy each other. 
Second: In front of your spouse; take your punishment.  

From watching you receive your comeuppance, they can finally witness justice being served and administered without a hint of favoritism.


 Even, the best therapist can be charmed by a husband and  dislike a wife ( or vice versa ) but it takes two to tango. Nor will you be  truly held accountable without consequences and t
herapists don't judge. They're trained to be passive and understand - even validate - the most willfully errant behavior.  It's my opinion, saying things like, "I see and how does that make you feel" is a waste of time  and sends the wrong message.

When it comes to behavioral correction, I believe that actions speak louder than words - and for couples that don't play fair, strict, impartial punishment the is equalizer required. If
 you've been wrong and you know it, I won't ask you how you feel.  I will make it my business to know exactly how you feel.  When my bare hand makes contact with your bare behind,  you will feel in pain and very sorry. 


One in front of the other, I'd  take you over my knee, or a bench and  spank your bottoms with my hand or my belt. You may get paddled, tawsed or caned as well, and the implement used will all depend on the deed. 

You've now gotten to observe while your partner is punished. You are validated, vindicated and satisfied that justice is served.  More importantly however, simultaneous punishment at the hands of a Disciplinarian, is a bonding experience which actually  strengthens the relationship. 

Because enduring corporal punishment on your behave, is perhaps the most sincere expression of apology. The two of you leave connected, affectionate and more inclined to  "play nice" than ever before. 



Then you can compare your well spanked and nicely burning bottoms.

That's couple therapy that works.







Warm Bottoms, 
Georgia Cane 



Georgia Cane: Disciplinarian