GEORGIA CANE DISCIPLINARIAN (NYC): SPANKING COUNSELING FOR THE BOTH OF YOU BECAUSE NEITHER ONE BEHAVES

                                                                       

 So here it is.

She thinks that you're a shameless flirt and he feels you're insecure.  She believes that you're ignoring her and he sees you as a diva.  He's weary of your constant nit-picking and her of wet towels on the bathroom floor.  She'd like you home for dinner more but you're always working late. And now he's at the computer until very late at night while you're in bed texting a Facebook friend you used to date in high school.  There is trouble brewing and action required.  Couple's counselors make you ask your partner how it makes them feel when you do this or that.  But the truth is, you already know how it makes them feel, which is the reason you do it, to begin with.  I suggest then instead of this pretense, that you air your grievances to a mature, impartial female authority; one who will listen carefully, judge fairly and then deliver a strict, no-nonsense, bare bottom spanking equally to you both.

Because neither party is blameless. The two of you are bored, willful, selfish, stubborn and I believe that you should receive your punishment side by side with one witnessing the other.

For his wandering eye,  you enjoy watching him wince as she grips a heavy tawse and counts the forty blows that are welting his exposed bare bottom.  And, for your incessant nagging and massive insecurity, he's pleased with the spectacle of your upturned bare bottom as it's striped by a slender rattan cane.

Then kneeling on all fours, face to face, you receive twenty blows of a thick leather paddle, alternating between first her bruised cheeks and then your own.

The air is cleared, the tears are shed and two bottoms are smartly smacked.  Now you can view one another with appreciative eyes and promise to be nice.  But don't forget.  If this conduct begins again, a pair of bare bottoms, well spanked, await you in the very near future.  Then again, what could be warmer than that?



Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

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New Year Resolution and Result Review

Happy New Year,  naughty boys, fresh girls, Dominant wives, misbehaving husbands, sly incorrigibles, would-be miscreants and spankophiles in general. The festivities are behind you and you've made your resolutions but,  as you know,  action initiates change. 

A  resolution is not a result, nor is worry - regardless of how obsessive  - a solution.  Never forget that nothing stays the same.   You are either going forward or backward at all times.  

Therefore you will review old patterns of behavior and, should you find them lacking,  adapt new ones that yield positive effects and more tangible results. 

I wish all of you a very healthy, sane, happy, and prosperous year.   

And remember.
Boys Learn When Bottoms Burn (and naughty girls do too).


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

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SPANKING AND COGNITIVE BEHAVIOR: DISCIPLINE FROM BACKSIDE TO BRAIN

We may think we understand our actions and the reasons why we do the things we do; but not always.  You may even believe that, by now, your personalities are set in stone as you seem to become more rigid with every passing year. And you may even tell yourselves that you're just "set in your way" but this too is not necessarily the case.  As a Disciplinarian, I know this: habits can be broken and Discipline changes behavior.  Think of your brain as a kind of computer. Now imagine your bottom the hard drive.  Not unlike clearing and resetting your computer from a virus;  a spanking reconfigures your brain, and age does not matter.   Even the most deeply entrenched habits of mature men and women are changed and not for a week,  month or for a year. They are changed for a LIFETIME.

Your brain has been programmed (like a computer) for quite a while.  Make no mistake.  It takes no shortage of expertise to access and replace the negative input with the positive.  Experience has proven that sound verbal correction along with regular application of the Belt, Paddle, Tawse or Cane on the bare bottom, is the best method; which is why clients tell me that I've done more for them in a single spanking than they've received from years of talk therapy.

The difference being:  I don't care WHY you're destructive.  I see to it that it,  that you STOP!

 Cognitively, your brain doesn't realize what it's doing.  You're engaging in patterns which keep repeating, even though you're well aware that they're ruining your life  ("Westworld").  Strict Spanking Discipline breaks you of those patterns by reprogramming you to disengage.

 Your brain is the frog that sits in the pan of slowly heating water. Habit is familiar and familiar is comfortable until, of course,  it isn't. Habits come in two ways:  Compulsive behavior; like throwing temper tantrums, eating when you aren't hungry, overspending or excessive time on the internet; and addictions such as cigarette smoking, drugs, and alcohol.
In the same way, the spankings your mother gave you as a child ( or a  least should have) set the boundaries you dared not cross; as an adult, a good sound, no-nonsense bare bottom spanking can now break you of those habits to keep you on course.  Spanking is not, I repeat not abuse. It should be delivered only on the bare bottom and never to the point of obviously sadistic physical injury.

That being said,  behavioral spanking is not playful and although every threshold is different,  a spanking hurts; which is unconsciously the precise reason why you behave long after your sore bottom is a vague memory.  You will, however, remember the consequences you paid when you stepped out of line.

In some cases, a single lesson works; for others, weekly, monthly or bi-yearly are in order. In any event, after the initial goal has been accomplished a degree of maintenance will be required.
Nevertheless, your burden is lifted,  your mind is at rest, you're free from compulsion and most importantly, your brain is reset.

Smooth sailing from then on.



Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

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SPANKING DISCIPLINE FOR THE CHRONICALLY LATE

Here you are again - like a chicken with it's head cut off -  running for the airport.  That's because, as usual, you've timed things down to the last minute and now you're in a frenzy.  For all you're micro managing, you failed to anticipate the car being five minutes late, the traffic delay on the highway and the time it sometimes takes to get through customs.  It's useless to sit there barking directions at your driver, but if you stop for another light, you'll jump out and run the rest of the way.  This behavior is compulsive, tiring and yet so counterproductive that I believe it must be some sort of dopamine rush. Whatever the cause, it has got to stop.  If it's a panic attack you require, I suggest having one that will do you some good.  By that I mean find a strict, no nonsense, female  authority, who'll take down your pants, like the grown child you are,  and deliver a serious spanking on your bare bottom  - to tears and more - until you understand that you are not always the one in control;

and as a Disciplinarian, I suggest that since you're a frequent traveler,  you do it soon, or if I have to, I will do it myself. 

Disciplinarians teach through consequences.  When the natural result of poor decisions don't seem to change your ways, a leather belt or hairbrush or even a tawse or cane should also be applied.  Then each transgression must be addressed at a time. 

For the umpteenth headache you've given your wife with your insanely complex travel arrangements, your pants are to be removed and you are taken over her knee.  Her leg is long enough to wrap around both of yours and lock you securely in place. 
Then comes seventy five smacks of her bare hand to your bare bottom; and when your hand wanders back to save your cheeks from her repeated slaps, she'll grab it in her fist and continue to redden your behind. Plead all you want.  She will not hear you.

For accusing the driver of making you late;  fifteen lashes of a thick leather strap and for back seat driving, ten. 
However, since dopamine you crave, she will beat your badly burning bottom with five blows of thick Scottish tawse;  (one lash, may make you see stars) followed by five of the best with a cane.

You learn from your bottom because it smarts to the touch for days but now your mind is clear, your tension is gone and you know what it takes to never be late again.  

  

Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane


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A LITTLE ADVICE ABOUT SPANKING THAT MAN

Ladies, I'm fairly certain you are here for wanting nothing more than to take down your husband's pants, bend him over a chair and take a paddle,  hairbrush or belt,  to wallop his bare bottom until it is beet red, bruised, and sore to the touch.  But this may be just what your husband needs you to do and the only thing standing between your strap and his behind is the experience.  As a Disciplinarian I can tell you this.  No one knows your partner better than you and no one can be more angry about what he does to cross your line.  So I say - have at it - and if necessary get a mature woman to show you how it's done.     

 The single most important requirement is  the determination to show him who's boss.   That means making sure his bottom feels everything you  can't forcefully enough put in words. 

Tell him what he's done to annoy you then bend his arrogant bare bottom over a chair and lash it with leather as many times as you see fit.  It will be left to you to determine what he can take and what he can't.

Or have him grab his ankles, to show you submission and an even more the perfect view.  

And if your husband insists upon acting like a baby, then spank him in the diaper position so he can feel like one.
   

The old fashioned, over the knee bare bottom spanking, the kind his mother should have given him,  is always  effective.

 If your husband was raised by the switch; then it's a good birching on the bottom and upper legs to remember the word "obedient." 

Whenever it's his turn to cook; first stripe his backside over a kitchen table, just to make a point.   

 After two or three of these "air cleansings" all you'll need say to him is "wait until we get home".  After three or four; a look will suffice.

Ladies; why put off the inevitable?  You know what needs to be done and I can assure you, the sooner you take charge of your man, the happier you both will be.

 Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane
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GEORGIA CANE: DIETS vs. DISCIPLINE

Your weight is, once again, out of control. Perhaps it's not your lack of dieting that's at issue but, rather, your lack of diligence. Because, as a Disciplinarian I know that without discipline, diets don't work. 

Like it or not, losing weight - and keeping it off - are the result of both regimented exercise and no-nonsense eating habits.  No short cuts and  should you, somehow, manage to the loose weight without applying these two disciplines, then surely, it will find you again.

There are, of course,  other  methods at attempting weight control.  You may tether yourself to a  calorie counter,  while living in fear and contemplation of every morsel that nears your mouth. 

Or to be the disappointing dinner guest at Palm One who orders the vegetable salad with a wedge of lemon. 

  Both efforts, while sufficiently tiresome,  are not quite  sustainable.  Soon, between restriction and anxiety, you'll begin obsessing on the things you cannot have ; 

                            
                             and indulge as never before.

    
 Commitment, however essential, is never enough. When one continually fails to exercise self discipline, then discipline must be administered and it's my belief that a mature woman, of strict authority, is best suited  to the task.   She'll reward when deserved, but punish when required  - severely if necessary - then take the reigns, guide and train until self-discipline is properly learned.    

                     Effort is less impressive than result. For the most part, hand holding weight loss groups while comforting,  pursue goals that, if achieved, rarely last. 

I believe in getting results or I'll know the reason why and that means consequences (good and bad) are important.  For example, an old fashioned, hard, bottom burning spanking on a willfully indulgent,  deliberately disobedient young lady is paramount for her behavioral correction.  Each and every smack of the hairbrush, sting of the belt and smack of the bare hand to her bare bottom  will deter further disobedience and teach her to follow instructions and stay on course.

After her bottom is reddened, sore to the touch so that she is unable to comfortably sit for several days afterward, she'll lose her desire sweets 

and gain a new appreciation for discipline.   
Because groups and gadgets cannot provide discipline and without  discipline, diets don't work.  

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SPANKING FOR SUCCESS : OUT WITH INERTIA

Fall is here and it's time, once again, to devote yourself to the business of productivity.  As you well know; 'nothing succeeds like success' and to achieve it, you must be ambitious, energetic and above all disciplined. Yet on occasion, even the best of you function, for extended periods of time, below par. That's because of inertia and it is the enemy of your personal, financial, creative, and social success. But as a Disciplinarian, I also know that if you cannot muster the strength to snap out of the fog on your own, then the burn of a leather belt, the smack of a wooden paddle, or sting of the cane  your bare behind will most certainly do it for you.

The reasons for inertia are unimportant.  I have identified the root causes for more than a few clients and it has done virtually nothing at all to change their behavior. But repeated hard and painful blows on the bare bottom - bare hand or implement - instantly wipes the ambivalence  from the brain; dormant endorphins release and depression leaves. But this is nothing new. 

Your mother, aunt or teacher probably didn't  know any of that.   What they did know, was that even the threat of  spanking your behind was bad enough to motivate you to do what you were supposed to do.

The trouble is you now lack that authority figure who holds you accountable, reprimands  and corrects your behavior by means of good, hard corporal spanking discipline and so I strongly suggest you find one.

 Look sharp and no excuses. 

 It's time to function at your optimum level.  But if, for any reason, you find  that you cannot meet the task at hand, a hard, blistering spanking on your bare bottom that leaves it red and tender a few days afterward will be just the thing to do it for you.  

In fact, I guarantee that  you will be up and running in no time at all.  

Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane



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GEORGIA CANE : SPANKING DISCIPLINE and RECONDITIONING YOUR MAN (NYC, NY)

Hello Ladies,

 I am re-posting this entry because,  due to the brilliance of Blogspot,   a  touch ; and   the original has dis -appeared  never to be found again.  But while the wording may be different, my message to you will be exactly the same.
Lately, I've been getting  emails from wives asking me whether or not they should be spanking their husbands.  As a Disciplinarian, here is what I can tell you.
 Alpha men may shoulder the responsibilities and decision making in the workplace, but at home,  the  woman is the one in charge,    And when he is out of control, he needs to be seriously brought back  into line. By that I mean taken over the knee, pants down, and delivered a hard bottom blistering spanking to his bare bottom. And  that someone, Ladies, is you.

Make no mistake men like, boys, will deliberately try your patience and they're fully aware of what the are doing. Still nobody wants to be the whining woman, complaining woman finding fault with every little thing.  In fact, I most of you would prefer to be lenient.

But if his conduct is unbearable, it is with your permission. Every time you chose to not to  nip his irritating and inconsiderate antics in the bud, you were training and conditioning him to continue.

 It's time to recondition your man.

Look him in the eye and tell him in no uncertain terms, you will no longer be putting up with his foolishness and  the next time he ignores you in public, comes home intoxicated or lets dinner get cold, you will march him into the bedroom, take off his pants, put him over your knee, and deliver a bottom blistering spanking to his bare behind until it is red, purple and blue. Make that the first and the last warning.
Then when he acts    up again - and he will - do exactly that.
Never less than seventy-five severe blows to his bare bottom, and if your hand alone can't  get it done, grab your hairbrush.

Ladies, the next time he'll think twice before doing something to displease you; and then  he'll decide not to do it.
And if you're out in public when he misbehaves  just say, "...wait until we get home."  He will calm down then and there with plenty of time to anticipate the punishment in store.

Husbands need to feel protected and know that when they're unable to control themselves,
someone is around to do it for them.  And that someone is going to be you.
The truth is, after you've burned his behind a few times, he'll be the  partner you want and  give you the respect and appreciation you deserve.  And the both of you will be the happier for it.

Happy Spanking.


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