Ladies, I'm fairly certain you are here for wanting nothing more than to take down your husband's pants, bend him over a chair and take a paddle, hairbrush or belt, to wallop his bare bottom until it is beet red, bruised, and sore to the touch. But this may be just what your husband needs you to do and the only thing standing between your strap and his behind is the experience. As a Disciplinarian I can tell you this. No one knows your partner better than you and no one can be more angry about what he does to cross your line. So I say - have at it - and if necessary get a mature woman to show you how it's done.
The single most important requirement is the determination to show him who's boss. That means making sure his bottom feels everything you can't forcefully enough put in words.
Tell him what he's done to annoy you then bend his arrogant bare bottom over a chair and lash it with leather as many times as you see fit. It will be left to you to determine what he can take and what he can't.
Or have him grab his ankles, to show you submission and an even more the perfect view.
And if your husband insists upon acting like a baby, then spank him in the diaper position so he can feel like one.
The old fashioned, over the knee bare bottom spanking, the kind his mother should have given him, is always effective.
If your husband was raised by the switch; then it's a good birching on the bottom and upper legs to remember the word "obedient."
Whenever it's his turn to cook; first stripe his backside over a kitchen table, just to make a point.
After two or three of these "air cleansings" all you'll need say to him is "wait until we get home". After three or four; a look will suffice.
Ladies; why put off the inevitable? You know what needs to be done and I can assure you, the sooner you take charge of your man, the happier you both will be.