SPANKING DISCIPLINE FOR THE CHRONICALLY LATE

Here you are again - like a chicken with it's head cut off -  running for the airport.  That's because, as usual, you've timed things down to the last minute and now you're in a frenzy.  For all you're micro managing, you failed to anticipate the car being five minutes late, the traffic delay on the highway and the time it sometimes takes to get through customs.  It's useless to sit there barking directions at your driver, but if you stop for another light, you'll jump out and run the rest of the way.  This behavior is compulsive, tiring and yet so counterproductive that I believe it must be some sort of dopamine rush. Whatever the cause, it has got to stop.  If it's a panic attack you require, I suggest having one that will do you some good.  By that I mean find a strict, no nonsense, female  authority, who'll take down your pants, like the grown child you are,  and deliver a serious spanking on your bare bottom  - to tears and more - until you understand that you are not always the one in control;

and as a Disciplinarian, I suggest that since you're a frequent traveler,  you do it soon, or if I have to, I will do it myself. 

Disciplinarians teach through consequences.  When the natural result of poor decisions don't seem to change your ways, a leather belt or hairbrush or even a tawse or cane should also be applied.  Then each transgression must be addressed at a time. 

For the umpteenth headache you've given your wife with your insanely complex travel arrangements, your pants are to be removed and you are taken over her knee.  Her leg is long enough to wrap around both of yours and lock you securely in place. 
Then comes seventy five smacks of her bare hand to your bare bottom; and when your hand wanders back to save your cheeks from her repeated slaps, she'll grab it in her fist and continue to redden your behind. Plead all you want.  She will not hear you.

For accusing the driver of making you late;  fifteen lashes of a thick leather strap and for back seat driving, ten. 
However, since dopamine you crave, she will beat your badly burning bottom with five blows of thick Scottish tawse;  (one lash, may make you see stars) followed by five of the best with a cane.

You learn from your bottom because it smarts to the touch for days but now your mind is clear, your tension is gone and you know what it takes to never be late again.  

  

Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane


Website:
www.georgiacane.com






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A SPANKING FOR A MEAN STREAK (New York City , NY)

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OVER the KNEE SPANKING: SHOCK TREATMENT THE NATURAL WAY (New York City, NY )

                                                                               


   When "the one" in your life is out of control, it's up to you to give them a grounding; and in some 
cases, this means no less than a good, solid, no nonsense, bottom burning spanking to tears and beyond.

   I'm of the opinion that whether you use a bare hand (my personal favorite) belt, tawse, rattan cane, leather paddle, hairbrush or wooden spoon, a good over- the-knee spanking will do more to correct bad behavior than all the scolding, lectures and threats in the world. That's why it's always the last resort.

   An authentic domestic disciplinary spanking has no safe words. Mothers, teachers, aunts and governesses  didn't adhere to your pleads for mercy (for that matter, nor do I) and it is administered on the bottom - only.
 
   Spanking is Nature's version of shock treatment therapy - minus the damage.  After a few hard, backside stinging smacks commence, minds blank, endorphins release and cobwebs clear. In my experience, I've found Seventy-Five hard and rapid, bare handed spanks on the bare, will succeed in getting their attention.

   
  Then, eventually, calm replaces tears, physical pain is almost forgotten and all that remains is the message. After one or two of these experiences, his bad behavior will be effectively altered, if not  changed completely.
  
   Making allowances for your partner's  naughtiness is not responsible, but if you can't bring yourself to give him a spanking, then find someone who can.  See to it that he stay on the straight and narrow, is productive, well mannered - and Spanked.

Georgia Cane: Adult Disciplinarian

SPANKING PUNISHMENT: DISCIPLINE IN THE WORKPLACE (New York City , NY)

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SPANKING: DISCIPLINE vs. PUNISHMENT (New York City , NY)

Lately it's become clear that people require two types of Spanking: Disciplinary and Punishment. Yes, I know  both fall under the umbrella  of corporal punishment but I believe some distinctions do exist.

Discipline is given to enforce obedience, to train or achieve perfection. Personally, I prefer giving over the knee, bare hand to bare bottom spankings but I may also use a hairbrush.  Depending upon the infraction, I might even  bend them over a chair so that I can apply my belt, my paddle - or both.  
Scolding  is  important as well.  Strong verbal correction - without vulgarity or profanity - will ensure he understands the nature of his misdeed.  In some cases, corner time or  washing that mouth out with soap is in order. However,  no matter what method I choose, discipline is always followed by reassurance. 

                                                                

But unlike discipline,  punishment is a penalty. It's impersonal, severe and administered with few words.   Punishment is consequence. And when someone's in need of punishment, a bare hand on his bare backside alone won't do but leather and wood will. 

 The Paddle, Tawse or Cane are my implements of choice. For punishment, the colder, and less personal the better, even if  your wife's the one burning your backside.

 True, in D/s,  Spanking and its terminology is fairly elastic but I have to say in the case of a Domnitrix and Disciplinarian, there's  a genuine difference.  For one thing, "bottoms" are not (generally) "subs" and while it's  all  power exchange   "submissives", unlike spankophile "bottoms" have real reluctance and fear at the thought of being held helplessly in place and spanked until pain wipes every  thought from their brain. They aren't receiving pleasure from pain itself,  but rather from the catharsis that follows - in addition to the endorphin release, mental clarity, confidence  and other empowering effects spanking provides. 

I notice that Europeans have no difficulty making the distinction between a Disciplinarian and Domnitrix and I  know people who visit them both.  Could be  because corporal punishment was so much a part of their education. After all, pain is the commonality.  It's the psychological approach and execution that differ. 

 So Discipline and Punishment aren't the same. 

And that is why Variety is the spice of life.

Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

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Georgia Cane: Adult Disciplinarian


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SPANKING DISCIPLINE : BOTTOM TO BRAIN BEHAVIORAL CORRECTION (New York City , NY).

Clients ask me why it's easier to cry with a bare handed spanking than it is with an implement  and I believe
 the reason is a matter of intimacy.

When it comes to Discipline,  nothing reinforces a  lesson better than a bare hand, spanking a bare backside while it's laying across my knee.  I can feel the message leave the palm of my hand to the base of their spine and shoot directly to the brain; and after a few minutes of blows to the bottom, it stays there.
That's because there is an intimacy to bare handed, bare bottom spankings that implements were deliberately designed to avoid.
                                                           

     
               
After hand spanking was deemed too personal for corporal punishment in the class room, birches were introduced.  Then later, schools decided that, since birches  were used in homes, they were also unsuitable for institutions, and that's when cane replaced them. Similarly, Tawses  stood in for the strap.  These implements were used for the sake of formality, so disciplinary procedures were, of course, enacted.

It was often mandatory that a naughty boy assume a position and remain there -pants down.  This may mean bending over and holding his ankles, being bent over a desk or kneeling on a post.

The strikes were imposed and counted according to his infraction.  For example, twenty- five strokes of the cane for impertinence or ten blows of the tawse for unpreparedness and to add to his humiliation, his punishment was probably delivered in front of the class.  Nevertheless, he exercised discipline and self control of a Stoic in order to endure the pain - or risk  harsher punishment.  In truth, endurance was the subliminal (and invaluable), lesson.

As an OTK Disciplinarian, I expect no such compliance. In fact I expect resistance, and I'm equal to the task. I'll lock down struggling adult boy, hold him tightly over my knee; grab his hand if he tries to protect his bottom and spank the living daylights out of him.

My hand burns hotter than leather and stings more than any implement and I fully engage in no nonsense, non verbal communication in the same way a Strict Nanny, Mother, Aunt or Baby Sitter might.  Then the crying begins.

Crying is a catharsis that spanking can produce and the reason it's easier to achieve tears with a hot bare hand than it is a cold implement -  is intimacy.  


Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane

www.georgiacane.com

DISCIPLINE WITH BELTS OR TAWSES (New York City , NY)

 

Two things that the Scottish are known for is the (regrettable) deep fried boiled egg wrapped in bacon, and the Tawse.  Many Scottish schoolboys referred to the way it stung their behinds as " The Tingle O'  the Tawse".

The tawse is similar to a belt except that instead of a single piece of thick leather,  the tawse is deeply thonged  (perhaps several times) and  feels like two (or more) straps hitting your backside at once.  It hurts like a belt and stings like a lash;and the tawse and belt are often used interchangeably. 

When I conduct formal discipline I prefer the tawse .  The misbehaved boy must be bent, bare bottom,  over a chair for the tawsing to be most effective.  The tawse I own has a thick wooden handle allowing for  maximum control.  I then decide the number of blows  for each of his infractions (or the magnitude of his particular transgression). 


 For both formal and informal  discipline the belt will do nicely.  If someone is caught- red handed, I can instantly take the belt, throw him across my knee and burn his bare bottom.  No counting and  it will smart for  quite some time.

But when a certain number of severe  lashes is required,  I may use a belt in the same manner I will the tawse.   He will be bent over a chair, bottom bared to receive a number of very sharp and measured blows.

My favorite way to deliver a message may be a good, hard, over the knee, bare handed spanking but that's an intimate and, at times inappropriate method.  

On this side of the pond the belt is much more traditional but rest assured, the Scottish Tawse  is one implement your bottom will not soon forget.



Warm Bottoms,
Georgia Cane



MY WEBSITE:
www.georgiacane.com

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GEORGIA CANE: WHY ADULT SPANKING DISCIPLINE is EFFECTIVE (New York City , NY)

"In it's function, the power to punish is not essentially different 
from that of curing or educating."

-  Micheal Foucault

I believe spanking is administered to  punish, teach and instill self discipline in order to raise a well mannered, socially adjusted, successful individual. 

One of the first lessons a child learns is to obey authority, for it's own sake and without explanation. In other words, "...because I said so."  In time,  they will come to understand the reason   why playing on the train tracks, or wondering off alone is a punishable offense.  The spanking was done to keep the child safe.
  
Still a child will test authority and a mother who makes threats, too often, to spank her child, will begin to lose authority. She is (unconsciously) sending a message that she's not to be taken seriously. 

But the most absurd method of behavioral correction of all, is to  reason with a young child in the throws of a tantrum.  How many times have we seen a  child of five or six  screaming and flailing around, while the mother attempts to "reason" with him as though he were fourteen?  Of course, this accomplishes nothing more than to make the child even angrier and more aggressive; and sometimes enough to give her a kick in the leg.  Here's why. 

Children have a need to  feel safe and to know that  the woman in control of their lives is strong and able to protect them. For this reason, instinctively, they will test and  if she is easily intimidated, they feel threatened by, and vulnerable to world around them.

By the same token, if a child acts out in public and the mother pulls him off of the floor and spanks his bottom  -  then and there  -  he eventually  calms down. The reason is the same.  He knows he's in strong capable hands;  boundaries will not be crossed; and  he is safe. The same holds true for adults.   

Grownups  act out too, although (hopefully) in more subtle ways.  
They  test the boundaries, procrastinate, fib, sass, throw tirades and indulge in various other  willfully, unacceptable behaviors. 

Adults need to be reminded that there are consequences to paid when they do things that are potentially harmful.  

I am a firm believer, that a good, old fashioned  spanking  to tears and  little beyond  - is  effective discipline at 6  or 60. 

In my experience, children of any age, must realize they are to behave and know that they're in the hands of a strong and capable woman.  

The more things change, the more they remain the same. 

 Warm Bottoms, 
Georgia Cane

www.georgiacane.com